SRL Archive - NOTA

Well guys it was nice knowing everyone. My parents are most likely going to kill me in roughly 3 hours. now not literally kill me but hypothetically kill me. They will be very angry. Mostly because today while i was at school my mom had this wonderful idea of 'let's clean Chris' room!". Now this is completely out of the ordinary considering my mom rarely ever goes into my room. Maybe once a month, usually to tell me to get up for school or something. But today she decided to clean my room. Well, lets just say she wasn't so happy with what she found… She found 7 Oz of marijuana… which in my area equates to roughly $2,500 USD. Now you may be wondering why i have this in my room. Well to tell you the truth i smoke alot. Not as much as i used to (around 1-2g/day on weekdays and up to 3-4g/day on saturday and sunday) but i smoked around .5g/day every day now. I had this weed because i sell alot of weed. In school and out of school. Now that my mom found it she is most likely going to kill me. So it was nice knowing all of you. see you soon and i will most likely still be on the forums since i payed for all 3 of my computers, so i'm hoping my parents just ground me for the rest of highschool but i can still use my computers. Well that's my story. Good Day everyone and best of luck to not getting murdered tonight.

RIP Dew <3

Hide it better next time :p

From: BMWxi
Hide it better next time :p

my mom has never cleaned my room or really looked in it before today… i never thought i had to worry. i made sure of no smelling and it was in plain site. it was hidden well enough for the usual parenting my parents do.

They will most likely not kill you, no I think more along the lines of they will maybe give you the talk (dreadful) and take away the cannabis. The second thing they do is what you should be more afraid of because I'm guessing since you have about $2500 of it, it is not all yours or maybe it is, but you will loose a lot of mullah.

On a last note…(insertwittycommenthereonhowdrugskill-nopunintended)

gutted for you mate and good luck explaining that one :S

dunno how they never smelt that tho ive had less than an ounce in my pocket on a bus once remember that song all eyes on me forget who sang it but you get the picture.

From: Recursive
They will most likely not kill you, no I think more along the lines of they will maybe give you the talk (dreadful) and take away the cannabis. The second thing they do is what you should be more afraid of because I'm guessing since you have about $2500 of it, it is not all yours or maybe it is, but you will loose a lot of mullah.

On a last note…(insertwittycommenthereonhowdrugskill-nopunintended)

i wish i could say it wasn't all mine. forgot to mention this was the second time i got caught. first time was about what you said. but it was only 5g and i was only in 7th grade so they just figured i was stupid… now they're smart enough to know i was in it for cash and am probably pretty addicted :/ oh wells i will see when my dad gets home.

edit - and i didn't pay 2500 for it i payed 1100. 2500 would be what i would get after i sold it all. which would take me maybe 3 weeks.

Now i'm not telling you how to live your life or anything, but selling drugs? It's a slippery slope.

From: idodew
my mom has never cleaned my room or really looked in it before today… i never thought i had to worry. i made sure of no smelling and it was in plain site. it was hidden well enough for the usual parenting my parents do.

Always expect the unexpected.
#RipIdodew

Oh man that's so dreadful. I feel you man.

Ultimately you just have to accept the punishment they give you.

I don't condone using drugs - using them is your wish but selling is not good at all. I reckon the best bet is a complete change in lifestyle - time to get active and fit again best road to recovery.

From: Benny
Oh man that's so dreadful. I feel you man.

Ultimately you just have to accept the punishment they give you.

I don't condone using drugs - using them is your wish but selling is not good at all. I reckon the best bet is a complete change in lifestyle - time to get active and fit again best road to recovery.

Solid advice!
Wise Old Man Benny

Haha.. Man that sucks.

Goodluck, i'll visit your grave. :)

Come play diablo with me if your getting grounded for the rest of your life!

From: Sjoekeloe
Solid advice!
Wise Old Man Benny

I second this.

Ask for it back?..my parents are quite lenient with everything i do i guess.

From: Kasi
Ask for it back?..my parents are quite lenient with everything i do i guess.

7 oz weed..

'Hey mom could u give that back? I still need to sell it at my school.'

From: Sjoekeloe
7 oz weed..

'Hey mom could u give that back? I still need to sell it at my school.'

Could work tbh :P depends on parents really.

From: Kasi
Could work tbh :P depends on parents really.

Maybe the 1% lol

Damn my parents would kill me #RIPDew

Less then 7 oz, but happened here to. I still hate it even though it was years ago.

Whats that law? Anything that can go wrong does go wrong?

From: ___
Whats that law? Anything that can go wrong does go wrong?

Murphy's law:

From: Murphy
Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.

From: ___
Whats that law? Anything that can go wrong does go wrong?

Murphy's

well not from personal exp but my homie has been caught by his parents multiple times slangin, not just weed, they found 100+ thizzles in his room before too.
but i dont know your parents or you but just play the whole im so stupid idk what i was thinking blah blah part. and if your doing good in school or whatever you do on the daily make it seem like your doing good and you made astupid mistake. or can say its not yours, someone had you hold it for them and you need to give it back or bad things can happen. my friends parents actually gave him his trees back. idk goodluck tho man, stay up

Er, honestly, I wouldn't say "I sell drugs at my school" on the forums. That's kinda like incriminating yourself. Then again, I'm a bit paranoid so it probably isn't that big of a deal. Still I'd edit that part out mate…

But back on topic. This was kinda your fault. Parents are always one day going to "clean" your room, which means they are only doing it to see if you are hiding drugs. It's a normals parents worst fear(or at least one of). This is the same way I got caught with some. Then again I kinda didn't care if it happened, I sure needed help so maybe subconciously I wanted to get caught.

Anywho, IMO at least its just weed and not something worse. Also I hope if they get rid of all the weed that it's actually all pay for by you and that you dont owe money for it. Cause that would suck….

From: chief herb
well not from personal exp but my homie has been caught by his parents multiple times slangin, not just weed, they found 100+ thizzles in his room before too.
but i dont know your parents or you but just play the whole im so stupid idk what i was thinking blah blah part. and if your doing good in school or whatever you do on the daily make it seem like your doing good and you made astupid mistake. or can say its not yours, someone had you hold it for them and you need to give it back or bad things can happen. my friends parents actually gave him his trees back. idk goodluck tho man, stay up

No, just be a man and face the consequences u deserve

Smoke it all man. Before your parents try to flush it.

From: Wetish
Smoke it all man. Before your parents try to flush it.

Or make the meanest spacecake ever ;)

I'll make sure to bless your grave.. R.I.P. Dew..

Rip #RipIdoDew

From: chief herb
well not from personal exp but my homie has been caught by his parents multiple times slangin, not just weed, they found 100+ thizzles in his room.

Not to sound uneducated, but what is a thizzle? (All the drug dealing terminology I know id from Breaking Bad)

From: BMWxi
Not to sound uneducated, but what is a thizzle? (All the drug dealing terminology I know id from Breaking Bad)

Ecstasy.

Well… going to some doctor who specializes in teens with drug addictions… grounded until further notice… my boundaries are school and home… wahoo… looks like a good chance to start working out. does anyone have a good workout routine? i haven't worked out since i played baseball which i quit since i would fail a drug test :(

From: idodew
Well… going to some doctor who specializes in teens with drug addictions… grounded until further notice… my boundaries are school and home… wahoo… looks like a good chance to start working out. does anyone have a good workout routine? i haven't worked out since i played baseball which i quit since i would fail a drug test :(

Doesn't look all too bad :)
I see you can still play on the computer.
That's a big plus for you.

EDIT: Brad had a thread bout workouts
http://villavu.com/forum/showthread.php?t=94649

From: Sjoekeloe
Doesn't look all too bad :)
I see you can still play on the computer.
That's a big plus for you.

if i couldn't do that then i don't know what i would do with my time. i guess they figure its better i sit on runescape than sell drugs? so i suppose its something they figure they shouldn't take away. it's probably good i'm getting help as much as i denied the fact i didn't need it :/

From: idodew
Well… going to some doctor who specializes in teens with drug addictions… grounded until further notice… my boundaries are school and home… wahoo… looks like a good chance to start working out. does anyone have a good workout routine? i haven't worked out since i played baseball which i quit since i would fail a drug test :(

I still say lucky its only weed.
There's no such thing as addiction to weed. It can only be mentally addicting. No physical, or withdrawals, associated with it. So I really don't see a reason to see a doctor but parents dont know so they will do these types of things.

I'll send a taxi to lumbridge

From: Neznam
I still say lucky its only weed.
There's no such thing as addiction to weed. It can only be mentally addicting. No physical, or withdrawals, associated with it. So I really don't see a reason to see a doctor but parents dont know so they will do these types of things.

Yeah, but you can't get chemically addicted to RuneScape either. But I've seen and heard of some pretty extreme cases. You can go to rehab for just about anything. Plus, a lot of people smoke it with tobacco, which most definitely is addictive.

On topic, your parents were probably more concerned than anything, they'd be more worried about what they did to cause this, or what they could have done to prevent it.

From: Richard
Yeah, but you can't get chemically addicted to RuneScape either. But I've seen and heard of some pretty extreme cases. You can go to rehab for just about anything. Plus, a lot of people smoke it with tobacco, which most definitely is addictive.

On topic, your parents were probably more concerned than anything, they'd be more worried about what they did to cause this, or what they could have done to prevent it.

Yeah tobacco is addictive :P, weed isn't but I see what you're saying. Weed can become a habbit though and you will find it very hard habbit to break.

From: The Killer
Yeah tobacco is addictive :P, weed isn't but I see what you're saying. Weed can become a habbit though and you will find it very hard habbit to break.

http://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/marijuana-abuse/marijuana-addictive

besides that, yes, it is addictive, as is everything.

From: grats
http://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/marijuana-abuse/marijuana-addictive

besides that, yes, it is addictive, as is everything.

Yeah it's addictive, my bro is an example :(

He's doing it 10 years now non-stop

From: Sjoekeloe
Yeah it's addictive, my bro is an example :(

He's doing it 10 years now non-stop

I think it's sad so many people think so many things aren't addictive or harmful.. there are many people who have ruined their lives on watching bad tv or playing bad video games non stop, that's not even on the level of any drugs lol.

From: grats
I think it's sad so many people think so many things aren't addictive or harmful.. there are many people who have ruined their lives on watching bad tv or playing bad video games non stop, that's not even on the level of any drugs lol.

True that :p
Haven't had a smoke for 3-4 months now, can't remember.
But everytime I think/ see it. Goddamnit, hard to control!

From: grats
I think it's sad so many people think so many things aren't addictive or harmful.. there are many people who have ruined their lives on watching bad tv or playing bad video games non stop, that's not even on the level of any drugs lol.

The difference is people don't have chemical dependencies to weed like they do with other drugs, where your body needs the drug. You can die from withdrawals from most other drugs, because you're chemical dependent on them. You can't die from "withdrawals" from weed, since it can only be a mental addiction, like people being addicted to video games or tv.

Also, your post earlier saying weed is obviously addictive is silly. Your source has no actual sources listed. Don't want to go into more about that though, as it's sadly a pointless debate.

From: i luffs yeww
The difference is people don't have chemical dependencies to weed like they do with other drugs, where your body needs the drug. You can die from withdrawals from most other drugs, because you're chemical dependent on them. You can't die from "withdrawals" from weed, since it can only be a mental addiction, like people being addicted to video games or tv.

Also, your post earlier saying weed is obviously addictive is silly. Your source has no actual sources listed. Don't want to go into more about that though, as it's sadly a pointless debate.

There are 3 types of lies in this world: lies, damned lies and statistics.

On topic: when it comes to weed discussions on the internet, there will never be agreement. Opinions will be resolute! Just think of it this way, it's costing you money, and brings no long term benefit. It's just like buying from McDonalds for your lunch, rather than making a sandwich.

On the chemical side of things, research is very non-conclusive at this stage. I personally wouldn't take paracetamol if it hadn't been very thoroughly tested, but I'm threw cautious type.

From: i luffs yeww
The difference is people don't have chemical dependencies to weed like they do with other drugs, where your body needs the drug. You can die from withdrawals from most other drugs, because you're chemical dependent on them. You can't die from "withdrawals" from weed, since it can only be a mental addiction, like people being addicted to video games or tv.

Also, your post earlier saying weed is obviously addictive is silly. Your source has no actual sources listed. Don't want to go into more about that though, as it's sadly a pointless debate.

Don't cry to me about it.

Honestly bottom line is you can throw statistics around all day but until you have experianced an actual addictive drug take over your own mind or had someone very close to you addicted to a substance that is proven to be a highly addictive then you dont get the difference between things like weed and things like herion. There is a increadible large difference between weed and addictive substances bottom line.

IMHO Inhaling the smoke from a leaf is never good for you.

Obviously, niether is ingesting large amounts of saturated fats or alcohol. Everything in moderation.

From: idodew
if i couldn't do that then i don't know what i would do with my time. i guess they figure its better i sit on runescape than sell drugs? so i suppose its something they figure they shouldn't take away. it's probably good i'm getting help as much as i denied the fact i didn't need it :/

Admitting there is a problem is the first step to recovery ;)

I got caught twice, parents said either drug rehab or some severe rules. I choose the rules because I still wanted to live at home for free…all I did all summer was work and play mw2 lol.

From: Richard
Yeah, but you can't get chemically addicted to RuneScape either. But I've seen and heard of some pretty extreme cases. You can go to rehab for just about anything. Plus, a lot of people smoke it with tobacco, which most definitely is addictive.

Yeah, but even WITH those extreme cases they don't compare even slightly to what addiction to hard drugs will make a person do. I find it comical when someone mentions "weed" and "addiction" in the same sentence. It isn't statistics but FACT that weed isn't physically addictive. If you don't smoke it you're not going to start getting withdrawals and feel like your body is turning inside out from all the pain. It will definitely be on your mind non stop. That's another issue that to me, being someone who sadly had experiences with substances, isn't at all that hard to deal with. Then again we are all different.

But back on topic.
Whats going on now? Seen that doctor yet?
What did he suggest? Btw he's going to suggest REHAB (most likely) which will cost around 1800$ bux. Im not here to tell you if you need it or not, but just think it out first cause that doc will try to push you into it.

Mental or physical. Addiction stays an addictions.
Mental pain is real man :)

Sucks to be you!

I'd like to hear an update! (And as an ex-regular user, my opinion is weed is addictive and although not as severe in comparision to other drugs, will cause the users to make bad decisions [both short term and long term][source: watched quite a few of my friends go from high aspirations to low paying-low aspiration dingles])

From: cause
I'd like to hear an update! (And as an ex-regular user, my opinion is weed is addictive and although not as severe in comparision to other drugs, will cause the users to make bad decisions [both short term and long term][source: watched quite a few of my friends go from high aspirations to low paying-low aspiration dingles])

yeah it does affect your life a lot. I would have never done it if I think about it now.

Oh @idodew, Murphy's law.
First u lose the weed, now u lose your Goldfarming accounts!

From: cause
I'd like to hear an update!

I 2nd this. Really want to hear whats happened thus far.

I never understood this whole grounding thing. I never was grounded, even though I did some pretty bad things, granted not anything to do with drugs, since I don't do either drugs or alcohol, and never will. Now that I think of it, none of my friends were either, and they did much worse stuff than me. I don't know, maybe it's an american thing or something. Always thought it was stupid when people say they were grounded, and then you basically could tell they were from the US. :D

Don't do drugs though, it's not good for you!

From: Sjoekeloe
Mental or physical. Addiction stays an addictions.
Mental pain is real man :)

^^^THIS!

In plain talk, your a dumbass. You really want to be a dealer? First jail, then prison. It's not a game or a joke. Get your act together and man up! Decide if you want a life or not because your the master of your own destiny.

From: cause
I'd like to hear an update! (And as an ex-regular user, my opinion is weed is addictive and although not as severe in comparision to other drugs, will cause the users to make bad decisions [both short term and long term][source: watched quite a few of my friends go from high aspirations to low paying-low aspiration dingles])

As far as an update. I'm still grounded and have been going to 'rehab' although it's not what you would normally think of rehab. I am going to a doctor that deals with 'teens with drug addictions' and basically so far we've just been going over what like led me into getting involved with drugs etc. I go once a day for the rest of march then every few days once april comes. From then on i'm just going to keep going less and less until i don't feel like i'm compelled to be involved. Otherwise i've made some pretty drastic life changes i would say, i am doing my best to find new friends at school and get involved with a new group of people outside of drugs. I also got a new haircut aswell as a new set of closthes, lots of closthes actually. completely redid everything in my closet, attempting to completely change. I also got a membership to a local gym aswell as a personall trainer so i can get in shape although i was never really out of shape completely. @Benny (the pin man) also recommended me a home workout called Insanity that i have ordered through Amazon that should come in the next few days. So basically i figured it was time to turn my life around, i don't want to be that family member that my family doesn't want and i also don't want to be a bumb on the street, which you aswell as other people in my family have told me is where i'm headed. So i guess it's about time i started getting my act together. I studied for my first test aswell in probably 4-5 years and got a 97% so i'm pretty pleased with that and for once my mom didn't lecture me on how i need to try harder. So overall i would say i'm heading in the right direction, but it's easy to change for a short while and fall back on old habits. I want to do my best to keep getting better and hope thats where i'll end up. So Cause i hope this answered your question for an update. and yeah sorry i just rambled for a long paragraph…

Nice mate, you're gonna be fine.
You're selfconcious now :)

Sounds like great progress, keep it up! :)

From: idodew
As far as an update. I'm still grounded and have been going to 'rehab' although it's not what you would normally think of rehab. I am going to a doctor that deals with 'teens with drug addictions' and basically so far we've just been going over what like led me into getting involved with drugs etc. I go once a day for the rest of march then every few days once april comes. From then on i'm just going to keep going less and less until i don't feel like i'm compelled to be involved. Otherwise i've made some pretty drastic life changes i would say, i am doing my best to find new friends at school and get involved with a new group of people outside of drugs. I also got a new haircut aswell as a new set of closthes, lots of closthes actually. completely redid everything in my closet, attempting to completely change. I also got a membership to a local gym aswell as a personall trainer so i can get in shape although i was never really out of shape completely. Benny (the pin man) also recommended me a home workout called Insanity that i have ordered through Amazon that should come in the next few days. So basically i figured it was time to turn my life around, i don't want to be that family member that my family doesn't want and i also don't want to be a bumb on the street, which you aswell as other people in my family have told me is where i'm headed. So i guess it's about time i started getting my act together. I studied for my first test aswell in probably 4-5 years and got a 97% so i'm pretty pleased with that and for once my mom didn't lecture me on how i need to try harder. So overall i would say i'm heading in the right direction, but it's easy to change for a short while and fall back on old habits. I want to do my best to keep getting better and hope thats where i'll end up. So Cause i hope this answered your question for an update. and yeah sorry i just rambled for a long paragraph…

You're doing amazing man. Depending where you live, there is this thing called "daytox". Basically you commit going at least 10hours a week to a place where they have activities like yoga, acupuncture, drawing/painting, weight lifting, etc. It's pretty much something that keeps you occupied when bored rather than thinking back on negative thoughts about using drugs. You did say you're going to start working out at the gym which is on the similar path.

For me personally, the longer the time passes the harder it gets so keeping yourself busy is a must. It was easy to just put it down.

Good luck.

Stuff like this is normal dew ;) I used to go to a shrink cause I was s*cking at school.
Didn't like it one bit.

The time I was smoking weed / getting drunk.

Keep at it and if you need someone to talk to shoot me a PM. Your on the right road and it's really not hard to follow as long as it's what you want. You have my support all the way! Good job!!

Yes @idodew I'm so happy to see everything has gotten much better and you took my advice to change up your life!
I've been about busy this week to keep a closer eye on you but I'm really pleased at everything you have started. The hard part is for the next month or so to keep motivated. Once you break that barrier it is easy to settle into a routine that will keep you clear and on the straight path!

Keeping going hard man!

Benny

From: Sjoekeloe
Mental or physical. Addiction stays an addictions.
Mental pain is real man :)

well put, and to add.. mental pain is often worse.. people mostly have a better ability to deal with physical pain

I hate to point a finger, but look at people who cut, they can easily deal with the physical, and would rather it than the mental.

Awesome to hear dude…I am confident in you!

The point wasn't whether mental or physical pain is worse, it was between sometimes physically addicting vs mentally. Physically meaning you will go into painful withdrawals with every thought consumed by the thought of using, mentally being your every thought consumed by using. Relatable to mental + physical pain, but totally different, and it appears to be pointless to discuss further.

Back on topic…
Best of luck!

E: That was terrible of me to speak like that without reading your update and all your improvements. I apologize! I am glad to see you've made a change for what you believe to be good for you!

I wish you the best of luck!

…. Dude… It was nice knowing you..

Good bye, friend. :(

From: idodew
Well guys it was nice knowing everyone. My parents are most likely going to kill me in roughly 3 hours. now not literally kill me but hypothetically kill me. They will be very angry. Mostly because today while i was at school my mom had this wonderful idea of 'let's clean Chris' room!". Now this is completely out of the ordinary considering my mom rarely ever goes into my room. Maybe once a month, usually to tell me to get up for school or something. But today she decided to clean my room. Well, lets just say she wasn't so happy with what she found… She found 7 Oz of marijuana… which in my area equates to roughly $2,500 USD. Now you may be wondering why i have this in my room. Well to tell you the truth i smoke alot. Not as much as i used to (around 1-2g/day on weekdays and up to 3-4g/day on saturday and sunday) but i smoked around .5g/day every day now. I had this weed because i sell alot of weed. In school and out of school. Now that my mom found it she is most likely going to kill me. So it was nice knowing all of you. see you soon and i will most likely still be on the forums since i payed for all 3 of my computers, so i'm hoping my parents just ground me for the rest of highschool but i can still use my computers. Well that's my story. Good Day everyone and best of luck to not getting murdered tonight.

Tell them you're raising a college fund then got mugged and they made you smoke so now you're addicted.