SRL Archive - NOTA

Today is supposed to be a happy day...


Neznam

2012-07-07 01:29:06

It's my friends birthday… who passed away a few months ago.
and they say it gets easier

Ezio Auditore da Firenze

2012-07-07 01:32:39

Sorry to hear about that, condolences to your families.

Abu

2012-07-07 15:00:48

Hey man, you can always hit me up with a pm if you need anyone to talk to :)

LemonHaze

2012-07-07 15:09:39

I'm sorry to hear that :(

Becks

2012-07-07 16:12:41

Sorry man, I lost my friend Angela a few years back and I still miss her the same everyday. Keep the memories strong.

Benny

2012-07-07 16:15:48

Sorry to her man :( sucks

one1988

2012-07-07 16:30:51

I'm sorry for your loss man, always here if you need someone to chat with

Neznam

2012-07-07 16:59:26

I really don't know how to get through this. This person was so imporant to me. Best brother any guy could hope for.

When I need answers to something I just google it… however in this case I can't seem to find it.

shstiger2009

2012-07-07 17:42:08

Can't even imagine how that feels, I know that if I lost either of my 2 best friends, I would be absolutely devastated. I've known then since I was very young.

stuartroad

2012-07-07 19:15:28

From: Neznam
I really don't know how to get through this. This person was so imporant to me. Best brother any guy could hope for.

When I need answers to something I just google it… however in this case I can't seem to find it.


There is no answer mate, this is just how life rolls, you just gotta pick yourself up and keep on going, the world doesn't wait for you to recover from a loss. Sorry if I am sounding harsh.

I work in a nursing home, I see death at least once a week. Sad part is as much as you tell people you are used to it. You will never be, it's always going to hurt unless you are a heartless person.

You also need to realize that you DO NOT have to get over it. Why should you get over it, this person was so great to you so you should never forget them. But would that person want you to stop everything in your life just because they were no longer with you, if they liked you as much as you did then they would want you to move on and make more friends, enjoy yourself as much as you did before. Also do not be afraid to talk about it, so many people have lost loved ones, you will relate instantly if you talk to someone, you might even get something off their chest also.

Good luck, xxo

[XoL]

2012-07-07 20:05:04

Sorry for the loss :/, honestly though you need to push yourself to continue and to be better than before think of it as you are living life for two people now; live for your friend.

Neznam

2012-07-08 22:43:47

I know its going to take time, but its been 5 months… and still feels like day 1.
Honestly the sad story is, this is the only reason I came back into gaming and started playing rs again. To try to get through this but its hard and as days go by harder.

Rezozo

2012-07-08 22:55:11

I have never lost a friend, and I can't say I feel your pain, but I can say that I hope you feel better, and Im here if you need me.

~Joey

Abu

2012-07-09 16:13:45

From: Neznam
I know its going to take time, but its been 5 months… and still feels like day 1.
Honestly the sad story is, this is the only reason I came back into gaming and started playing rs again. To try to get through this but its hard and as days go by harder.


We've had this conversation before bro.

Just read back over our pm's and hopefully you'll feel a bit better :redface:

Neros

2012-07-09 16:35:12

From: Neznam
I really don't know how to get through this. This person was so imporant to me. Best brother any guy could hope for.

When I need answers to something I just google it… however in this case I can't seem to find it.


If you want to talk to me, feel free. i experienced the same thing at a very young age, i was 14 and my best friend was messing around inhaling butane gas… kinda guess what happened.

never really got over it. it's one of those things you try to suppress and iv'e been through enough crisis's to suppress my emotions on demand…

honestly feel free to drop me a pm man
i know all too well how you feel at the minute.

Neznam

2012-07-09 16:50:21

@Neros, sry to hear that, thx for the offer

From: abu_jwka
We've had this conversation before bro.

Just read back over our pm's and hopefully you'll feel a bit better :redface:


It's not working mate, Im losing it.

Joe

2012-07-09 16:57:58

3 of my friends committed suicide. To say you tried just won't cut it, you need to let go of the past and keep the good memories.