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Any ideas :/ as I'm a wuss when it come to talking to girls :/
Help? <3

Tell her you like her in person. It will become easier, also tell yourself that you can do it, self-talk yourself. Talking to girls will become easier, its also hard for the first time!

LOL? Are u not social or something? Not like they're going to eat u or something.. I tried to convince to so many programmers in my class that it's fine to do other stuff other than programming but no.. doesn't work so I end up feeling awkward as the only person who actually does stuff..

U should go out more or talk more or socialize more or if none of those then at least ask her to do something.. doesn't have to be sex or anything.. maybe lunch, maybe a walk in the park.. maybe a get together.. a club?.. a party?

Hate to say it but sometimes doing homework together.. well? it works and u get to show off ur smart side.

How it really works is that u get lots of friends.. they introduce u to others and so on.. Thing is.. one mistake and ur done.. cuz girls talk to each other n stuff.. go to the washroom together. lol But like said above.. just do it without thinking and don't make it awkward after u do it.. cuz that's just weird. All you gotta do is tell her.

From: Dragonrider
Tell her you like her in person. It will become easier, also tell yourself that you can do it, self-talk yourself. Talking to girls will become easier, its also hard for the first time!

True :)

From: ggzz
LOL? Are u not social or something? Not like they're going to eat u or something.. I tried to convince to so many programmers in my class that it's fine to do other stuff other than programming but no.. doesn't work so I end up feeling awkward as the only person who actually does stuff..

U should go out more or talk more or socialize more or if none of those then at least ask her to do something.. doesn't have to be sex or anything.. maybe lunch, maybe a walk in the park.. maybe a get together.. a club?.. a party?

Hate to say it but sometimes doing homework together.. well? it works because u get to show off ur smart side.

How it really works is that u get lots of friends.. they introduce u to others and so on.. Thing is.. one mistake and ur done.. cuz girls talk to each other n stuff.. go to the washroom together. lol But like said above.. just do it without thinking and don't make it awkward after u do it.. cuz that's just weird.

I am social :P one of the person who talks a lot in class its just come to girls :P where I feel I may offended them if I say summit so I rarely bother :/

From: Mat
True :)


I am social :P one of the person who talks a lot in class its just come to girls :P where I feel I may offended them if I say summit so I rarely bother :/

Well they're not going to eat u for offending them a couple times.. and telling them isn't going to offend them either.

Goddamnit, I WANT to post a meme, but i'm probably going to get infracted :(

From: Sin
Goddamnit, I WANT to post a meme, but i'm probably going to get infracted :(

Could still post advice instead of just this post, even if its NOTA.

On Topic

Just do what you heart tells you and you'll be fine.

Either she says yes and you become very happy and have a lot of funtime, or she says no and you move on and find someone else. As long as your heart doesn't think anything illegal such as rape, you'll be alright and think about it, you ask 2 girls, the posibility one says yes is twice as big than if you ask 1 girl, just keep asking until you find your other half ^.^~

From: DemiseScythe
Just do what you heart tells you and you'll be fine.

Either she says yes and you become very happy and have a lot of funtime, or she says no and you move on and find someone else. As long as your heart doesn't think anything illegal such as rape, you'll be alright and think about it, you ask 2 girls, the posibility one says yes is twice as big than if you ask 1 girl, just keep asking until you find your other half ^.^~

Ouch, that's the way of the million rejections ;) But it is sure the easiest one.

Instead of just ask her, you can also start flirting. Keep flirting and make sure you bring your intentions across. It also increases the change she wants you. Also as Demise said, there are more fish in the sea. No trick works guarantied. Keep trying and good luck!

come to her, smile and tell: hey, i am *your name* how are you.
she will probly tell you that she is fine etc.. and then tell her that you like her and ask for number.
if she will give u a number start chatting her with SMS and after few chats ask her to go out with you somewhere, if you are 18+ take her to some bar, if no then go to comedy movie.

Just do it! There are plenty of girls and you don't need to waste your time trying to be perfect when someone else is more than willing to take you the way you are :)

From: georgegeorge
come to her, smile and tell: hey, i am *your name* how are you.
she will probly tell you that she is fine etc.. and then tell her that you like her and ask for number.
if she will give u a number start chatting her with SMS and after few chats ask her to go out with you somewhere, if you are 18+ take her to some bar, if no then go to comedy movie.

21+ in Usland ^.^~

Yeah, just look at her in the eyes everytime you get a chance, she'll get the message after a while, if she stares back at you and doesn't look the other way, then its time for you to walk up to her and begin talking to her and befriend+ her.

How old are you? Have had the same problem when I was like 12-13 years old. It helped me a lot when I started to hang out with my friends and some girls with us. After awhile I started to feel way more comfortable and that was for me the beginning of lots of short and long relationships over the passes four years! Although I was really nervous for my first kiss, but if you start to hang around more with girls you are going to pick up why they would like you and what's the best way to act, so they like you! And then you will come to a point where you won't even get excited/nervous when you flirt as much as you can with the girl you like so much. You just know how to tole with it!
And then came for me the best moment that I have ever had in my entire life till now, I lost my virginity! My girl was hot and I really loved her! Unfortunately we broke up so i had to move to a new one. Haven't found a girl I loved like I loved her, but that will come!
So I hope you can do anything with how I figured it out! But I wish you the best, your time will come!

More details! We need to hear the entire situation! How did you meet, how do you know each other, how often do you talk/text/chat/hang out etc etc etc etc

From: YoHoJo
More details! We need to hear the entire situation! How did you meet, how do you know each other, how often do you talk/text/chat/hang out etc etc etc etc

Thats being nosy =p

From: YoHoJo
More details! We need to hear the entire situation! How did you meet, how do you know each other, how often do you talk/text/chat/hang out etc etc etc etc

Stalker? jk Yo :).

The only way is just to do it. If you get a "no" then brush it off(easier said then done).

Just do what the legendary Hobss does when he wants a lady of fine looks: "Hey, do you wear short skirts?".

Click here to get it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6V15a0dzbk

From: georgegeorge
come to her, smile and tell: hey, i am *your name* how are you.
she will probly tell you that she is fine etc.. and then tell her that you like her and ask for number.
if she will give u a number start chatting her with SMS and after few chats ask her to go out with you somewhere, if you are 18+ take her to some bar, if no then go to comedy movie.

Don't do that…don't tell her right away u like her and also don't ask for her number that quick. Have a good convo, compliment ha, ask her about herself or tell her about you, after a good convo ask her for number than.

From: DemiseScythe
21+ in Usland ^.^~

Yeah, just look at her in the eyes everytime you get a chance, she'll get the message after a while, if she stares back at you and doesn't look the other way, then its time for you to walk up to her and begin talking to her and befriend+ her.

This isn't always true, =p. Sometimes the girl will stare at you from faraway, and than when she notices your close she will pretend to not look and look the other way. Also you can tell a girl feels you when u pass her and ur looking at her, than you turn back and shes checking you out.

Never hide the fact that you like a girl, that doesn't mean to go yell it on the streets. I personally never had to say stuff like "I love you" etc, things just happened naturally. Like the lady I'm with at the moment, we met, we talked, we did things together, and somehow she came over to my place to sleep. I actually don't remember how it happened..

Do stuff together, invite her to activities she likes & that you like (facebook is great for finding these things). Find a concert of a group she likes, a movie, even a play if she's into that kind of stuff..

Oh and also, I don't know about your social position but where I live, you get lots of crap for being with someone. Immature youngsters close to you trying to poke at you with small remarks or comments that in the end will annoy you. Just don't give a damn and love on.

Also, eternal love was a concept thought of when the average man didn't live past 30.

"Hey, I'm having feelings for you, although I hope this does not make anything awkward between us. If you don't have the same feelings for me, don't worry I'll change my emotions toward you and treat you as a good friend/sister."

Good Luck!

Swear less, some girls may find swearing loads intimidating. Oh and just talk to her as you would talk to other friends, only difference is she has boobs and a v*****, be light hearted, tease her and have fun really.

Could be worse, you could be in a country where you have to learn their language just to talk with them, let alone flirt…

Lol practise with Demise! :D

From: P1nky
"Hey, I'm having feelings for you, although I hope this does not make anything awkward between us. If you don't have the same feelings for me, don't worry I'll change my emotions toward you and treat you as a good friend/sister."

Good Luck!

Sounds nice. This is worth trying.

well in Mexico we do this a very very special moment, something big. for example once I wrote: Would you like to be my gf (in spanish) in a big blanket and make some friends hang it from the fifth floor. every one give an aplause, and she was so happy. other friend put some similar message on a cacke (it was the girl birthday)

if you are a more discrete people (becuase ive seen relationships change from nation to nation) you can take her to a preety place or an special place for both or for her and say u love her.

if you arent the romantic kind (in spansih: cursi, (to be to0 much romantic)) because some girls don like romantic boys, you can do it after a cool moment like a game or something out of rutine.


all depends of the kind of girl and of the kind of person you are. if you know how its her, and how you like to do things. you have love in you hand



also remmber a brave person is not the one that doesnt have fears is the one that face them.
(its normal to be nervious i had have 4 girls and ive been nervious in all situations, but its part of love and life ;))

first question from me would be do you think she likes you? does she show any kind of effection? , if so then make her smile , show her a good time ?*not in that way ;)* understand her feelings , dont be to clingy , sometimes to clingy can put you in the friends area.. if all goes well you know shes a keeper then ask her out :D

Just do it. If she says no, don't worry about it, move on knowing that you tried.

Tell her you like, like just so fast, make it seem like it's comming out of no where. You'll be fine. :)

It is all very dependant on situation, if you know her really well I'd say just kiss her (this worked well for me, best choice I ever made :)) but if not then there's only some general advice to give; be confident, and never make a joke out of it, if you do you'll be permanently friend-zoned, and not just by her, if she tells her friends :')
It's simple enough though, you've just gotta suck up your pride and show you've got broad shoulders, if nothing else it'll make her happy to know that you like her, it's hardly gonna make it awkward unless you let it.
Oh, and never do it online, doesn't work.

practise on a runescape girl

From: dgpro
practise on a runescape girl

Just tell her. Pretty simple.

From: Bebe
Just tell her. Pretty simple.

Same thing I said but he doesn't want to get a no.

EDIT:

<3

From: DemiseScythe
Same thing I said but he doesn't want to get a no.

EDIT:

<3

There are ~3.2 billion females in the world. I'm sure you can find another kid. If it is meant to be then it is meant to be, don't chase relationships, let them come to you.


also <3 @ Demise

From: Sin
Lol practise with Demise! :D

Im still going to say that's the best idea.

From: DemiseScythe
Same thing I said but he doesn't want to get a no.

Mat.. I've had the same problem.. but now I'm with a wonderful girl…. Been almost 4Months.. <3

If you know she has Facebook or something… Add her and talk to her there and tell her.. It's more convincing in person.. but let her know on Facebook, that you aren't very confident and see if she likes you :3.. Girls like to see the confidence though.. Being shy is like saying you aren't confident :)

From: SandoS
It is all very dependant on situation, if you know her really well I'd say just kiss her (this worked well for me, best choice I ever made :)) but if not then there's only some general advice to give; be confident, and never make a joke out of it, if you do you'll be permanently friend-zoned, and not just by her, if she tells her friends :')
It's simple enough though, you've just gotta suck up your pride and show you've got broad shoulders, if nothing else it'll make her happy to know that you like her, it's hardly gonna make it awkward unless you let it.
Oh, and never do it online, doesn't work.

Beg to differ.. There was this girl in my gym class who I didn't know.. only met her while playing soccer with a buddy of mine… and she thought I was cute.. and I found her on this thing called MyYearbook, we chatted and stuff.. Until I saw her in school got to know her a bit.. started dating :P

In my experience, you don't really have to tell them..you start talking and getting to know each other and as time goes on the feeling will be implied and perhaps mutual. That's just me though.

The way I usually go about it is to test weather they might have feelings for you with a bit of flirting but there is a fine line between flirting and looking like you are a retard just be slow and not to heavy. Girls don't like persistant guys so make sure you don't over do the flirting. If you are certain she likes you then ask her out if not you can take a stab in the dark and move on. :) good luck worked for me

you dont even have to tell her that you like her, just be like, you wana go to for coffee sometime/cinema or something, if she says no outright then chances are she doesnt like you, plus if you do go on that date you'll give the opportunity to start liking you, if it doesnt progress from casual dates then its not meant to be

tell her u make scripts at villavu

This might not be what you wanna hear, but in my experience if you just let it happen you will be better off together in the end. Like I mean don't go looking for a girl, and don't have girls looking for you… just sort of meet in the centre i guess if you get what I mean.

Basically it should just happen, you don't need to try to impress her or anything to make her go out with you, once your going out then you can impress her and make her feel special if she is right for you.

Plus would you really wanna be going out with a girl that you have trouble talking to? :D

is she just like in your class or ? i was sorta like this but it was the girl sitting next to me -.-after like 1 month of sitting next to her and knowing her i thought she was really nice ect, we talked alot and just became good friends she liked me as did i her. after a couple weeks within the month she started acting a bit different hugging me at random moments ect so i asked her and we've been together for 2 years next month.
tldr: just ask her you never know what'll happen, if its a no then its her loss ;D im sure your a sexy beast anyways

Try doing group stuff, have a movie night or a bonfire at your house and either invite her or make sure someone else does ;). Then just start talking.

If you are going to attempt chatting her up on facebook, you have to make sure you are just as talkative IRL.

just flirt like a mother@#$%er (:
worked for me :D

Best advice I can give you, is don't ask questions, especially not on a Runescape botting forum.

Just do it. You will get better, even if she rejects you. The better you are at talking to women, the less will you get rejected = profit.

From: shadowmarkus
Best advice I can give you, is don't ask questions, especially not on a Runescape botting forum.

Just do it. You will get better, even if she rejects you. The better you are at talking to women, the less will you get rejected = profit.

Typically, less rejection = less profit ;)

I'd say cause has the best advice so far. You're far less likely to get rejected to a group date.. Especially if you ask one of her friends to go too.

From: ggzz
LOL? Are u not social or something? Not like they're going to eat u or something.. I tried to convince to so many programmers in my class that it's fine to do other stuff other than programming but no.. doesn't work so I end up feeling awkward as the only person who actually does stuff..
without thinking and don't make it awkward after u do it.. cuz that's just weird. All you gotta do is tell her.

Bro you are on a botting site for Runescape. You are not that social of a person obviously or else you wouldn't be sitting on your chair reading posts like this on a website. I'm not saying i'm more social than you but you can't be talking.

From: yoman123
Bro you are on a botting site for Runescape. You are not that social of a person obviously or else you wouldn't be sitting on your ass reading posts like this on a website. I'm not saying i'm more social than you but you can't be talking.

And so am I, I am also sitting on my chair reading posts like this on a website, and I can affirm that I am a very social person. Your idea is completely absurd.

From: yoman123
Bro you are on a botting site for Runescape. You are not that social of a person obviously or else you wouldn't be sitting on your ass reading posts like this on a website. I'm not saying i'm more social than you but you can't be talking.

Fine arguments you got there bro! But I agree with you, if you post and read on a forum you will probably not be social. It's not something I do in my spare time when it's to cold to work on my motorcycle.

From: yoman123
Bro you are on a botting site for Runescape. You are not that social of a person obviously or else you wouldn't be sitting on your ass reading posts like this on a website. I'm not saying i'm more social than you but you can't be talking.

I have a life and I'm very popular.
Your argument is invalid.

Oh. :(

So if you do something non-social in your spare time, you're not social?

Awesome logic. I'd dare to even say that botters are more social than real runescape players.

From: Sin
I have a life and I'm very popular.
Your argument is invalid.

Oh. :(

Rofl

IM SOCIAL I SWEAR

From: yoman123
Bro you are on a botting site for Runescape. You are not that social of a person obviously or else you wouldn't be sitting on your ass reading posts like this on a website. I'm not saying i'm more social than you but you can't be talking.

Never realized someone replied to me.. well Lemmie tell you.. YOU DON'T KNOW ME.. I'm actually on a botting site not because I care for runescape but because I'm in a programming course and programming is what I do.. Botting just happens to be "programming" for me aside from doing C++ for 5 hrs a day.

U wanna know me:

start 8:00 AM for 5 hrs programming..
Work after that.
Get Home
Out for Entertainment, movies, dates, clubs, house parties.
Get Home
Homework/projects
Script and check bugs
Shower n sleep

repeat.. of course minus entertainment rarely due to doing stupid group work by myself.. and minus scripting for a couple days depending on how bad things are or if I have too much work

Btw.. ur also on a runescape botting site..:spongebob:

Where I started out: srl-forums.com dunno username..
Moved to: freddy1990…topic,4188.0.html
Moved to: xsellize… user/297685-headspin/

Then started making my own sites to teach programming..