SRL Archive - Help

Ok some of you know Ian, he no longer really on the forums anymore. But i still chill with him like everyday. a few of you know of his problems. Not really sure what to do right now but he having some BIG PROBLEMS. Please help me out here. You know what we all don't want. Please add my msn ASAP before it could be to late. [email]Grantwengersnow@gmail.com[/email] I just not sure what to do, he said he didn't want to talk tonight. But i was told from another dude about what is partially going on. Its a problem contact me!

Not to sound like a total dick, but his "problem" is wanting attention. If he really has these "problems" then either you, or his friends, or himself would take him to see someone. To me, this is just another one of his stunts. Again, if he really had "problems" someone would do something about it.

~Camo

I talked to him before. He just wants you to feel sorry for him and shit. Just fuck it, its the internet people create bull shit really easy. If he was going to commit suicide then he should of done it long time ago.

Wow you guys really love him. Haha thing is he didn't tell anyone. I don't think that thats attention is that? I must say those things definantly have certain truth to them, and he has tried multiple times. I know him irl…

Then why aren't you helping him? If you actually cared you would go help him, not sit on the computer…

~Camo

From: Camo Developer
Then why aren't you helping him? If you actually cared you would go help him, not sit on the computer…

~Camo

Cause i don't know his address… Whatever just a heads up probably nothing will happen, but its good to stay on the safe side.
:duh:

His internet friends couldnt help him. Maybe his irl like you could help him. I dont think we need his drama on here anymore.

From: spicynachos2
Ok some of you know Ian, he no longer really on the forums anymore. But i still chill with him like everyday. a few of you know of his problems. Not really sure what to do right now but he having some BIG PROBLEMS. Please help me out here. You know what we all don't want. Please add my msn ASAP before it could be to late. [email]Grantwengersnow@gmail.com[/email] I just not sure what to do, he said he didn't want to talk tonight. But i was told from another dude about what is partially going on. Its a problem contact me!

I don't really think we can help with any stupidities you and Ian may have done. This is the Internet. You gotta solve your own IRL problems. We can only help you with coding and computers here.

From: spicynachos2
Wow you guys really love him. Haha thing is he didn't tell anyone. I don't think that thats attention is that? I must say those things definantly have certain truth to them, and he has tried multiple times. I know him irl…

Yeah, last time I saw him he ended up posting… I don't even want to remember … kind of pics.

I think we should ban any topics relating to Ian.

From: rogeruk
I think we should ban any topics relating to Ian.

Seriously…

As stated NUMEROUS times if he really has a problem consult it via real life not a freaking cheating site. This is constantly brought up and all I see is "attention whore."

Stop making threads - deal with it just like everyone else does.

K im sorry for sounding a bit bitchy…but i have a problem with alot that is being said.

• He almost killed himself. Now, if you call that attention grabbing, you need help.

• From: spicynachos2
  You know what we all don't want

  I'm pretty sure that he's hinting that hes getting to the point where he might try again.
• Ian. is not posting this thread, so how can he be attention grabbing? Also he has an IP ban, so spicynachos2 is probably not Ian. if you are going to go as far as to accuse him
• Just the simple fact that his internet friends didn't come to comfort him might make him feel even worse and hated/abandoned.
• If his irl friends fail, do you really want what may happen to him on your hands?

In conclusion, he has problems. He needs help. Our help too. I added you on msn spicynachos2, I hope you can tell be a bit more.

just my two cents.

~bionicle

From: bionicle1800
K im sorry for sounding a bit bitchy…but i have a problem with alot that is being said.

• He almost killed himself. Now, if you call that attention grabbing, you need help.
• I'm pretty sure that he's hinting that hes getting to the point where he might try again.
• Ian. is not posting this thread, so how can he be attention grabbing? Also he has an IP ban, so spicynachos2 is probably not Ian. if you are going to go as far as to accuse him
• Just the simple fact that his internet friends didn't come to comfort him might make him feel even worse and hated/abandoned.
• If his irl friends fail, do you really want what may happen to him on your hands?

In conclusion, he has problems. He needs help. Our help too. I added you on msn spicynachos2, I hope you can tell be a bit more.

just my two cents.

~bionicle

1. We dealt with it once, I believe the cops were called.
2. Did I say Ian was attention grabbing? No.
3. We can't help them other then what we know here. There's no reason to bring it to the forums.
4. It shouldn't of been on our hands in the first place.

You can help all you want but it should be done privately. There should not be threads created anymore about this (or at all imo).

From: Narcle
1. We dealt with it once, I believe the cops were called.
2. Did I say Ian was attention grabbing? No.
3. We can't help them other then what we know here. There's no reason to bring it to the forums.
4. It shouldn't of been on our hands in the first place.

You can help all you want but it should be done privately. There should not be threads created anymore about this (or at all imo).

1) Oh, we helped him once, lets let him kill himself now.
2)

From: Narcle
This is constantly brought up and all I see is "attention whore."

Close enough to attention grabbing.
3) What we know here is enough. He still goes on msn, i saw him on last night. Besides, villavu isnt only for scar and runescape, there are a few sub forms(such as this one) that deal with other topics. Hell, there is even a place for homework now!
4) This kind of thing no one should deal with. But if you had the chance to stop a guy from killing himself who you never met in your life, would you?

From: bionicle1800
1) Oh, we helped him once, lets let him kill himself now.
2) Close enough to attention grabbing.
3) What we know here is enough. He still goes on msn, i saw him on last night. Besides, villavu isnt only for scar and runescape, there are a few sub forms(such as this one) that deal with other topics. Hell, there is even a place for homework now!
4) This kind of thing no one should deal with. But if you had the chance to stop a guy from killing himself who you never met in your life, would you?

I never said to not help him. I said now twice that the threads need to stop being created.

Edit:
And those were only my opinions on the matter.

Stop seeking answers to IRL problems on a botting board.

Look, its truly sad that Ian is in this situation, but its like the 4th time something like this has come up (suicide attempts/threats, depressing threads hinting at the fact, etc). The last time this happened before he went crazy and posted all the gore, the people here dealt with it as good as anyone could - the cops were called and sent to his house as stated already, and thats probably the most responsible thing anyone on the internet could of done. So it's not that we don't care about someone threatening to commit suicide, we're just all sick of it - we've tried to help him numerous times but evidently we cant. He needs proper real life help, such as therapy by a real psychologist, and a bunch of teenagers on a runescape autoing forum cant realisticly be expected to be a substitution for that. Both him and his friends should of realised that by now.

When it comes down to it we come here to discuss computers, programming, and runescape, not to constantly have to deal with someone like this when none of us are qualified to, and by this time, not many would be wanting to bother when its highly doubtful he will actually die, and when its highly likely another situation like this will come up in a month or two.

And frankly, it just looks like attention whoring again. If he really wanted to kill himself, he would of succeded by now - its not hard to find a bridge to jump off, a train to jump in front of, or simply a knife. I'm not making suggestions, those are the first things that come to mind when thinking of ways to kill yourself, again if he was serious he would of considered these. If he rejected them, then he doesnt want to die. Not trying to be heartless…just calling it how I see it.

From: spicynachos2
Ok some of you know Ian, he no longer really on the forums anymore. But i still chill with him like everyday. a few of you know of his problems. Not really sure what to do right now but he having some BIG PROBLEMS. Please help me out here. You know what we all don't want. Please add my msn ASAP before it could be to late. [email]Grantwengersnow@gmail.com[/email] I just not sure what to do, he said he didn't want to talk tonight. But i was told from another dude about what is partially going on. Its a problem contact me!

Why don't you contact some IRL people? No one could realisticly do anything even if they wanted to.

This thread needs to be closed, anything relating to Ian needs to be discussed off the forums.

From: bionicle1800
1) Oh, we helped him once, lets let him kill himself now.
2) Close enough to attention grabbing.
3) What we know here is enough. He still goes on msn, i saw him on last night. Besides, villavu isnt only for scar and runescape, there are a few sub forms(such as this one) that deal with other topics. Hell, there is even a place for homework now!
4) This kind of thing no one should deal with. But if you had the chance to stop a guy from killing himself who you never met in your life, would you?

1) FFS man, do you want us to buy plane tickets and fly to his town, drive to his house, break in, and hold him down?
2) True, villavu does have other sub topcis, but wtf are we supposed to do?
4) If we had a chance, which we don't. I'm sure there are IRL people that can help Ian, so let's leave it to them. We are not qualified or even remotely capabale of doing anything.

And this is like the 3rd/4th time this shit has happened with Ian. FFS leave it to IRL people and the professionals not internet script kiddies that live half way around the f'n Earth.

Now that I look at it, this is what he wants. He wants people to keep posting about him or threads about him since it gets him attention. This thread and alike need to be closed, we are only fueling his attention whore-ism.

~Camo

From: Camo Developer
Now that I look at it, this is what he wants. He wants people to keep posting about him or threads about him since it gets him attention. This thread and alike need to be closed, we are only fueling his attention whore-ism.

~Camo

From: The Claw
Look, its truly sad that Ian is in this situation, but its like the 4th time something like this has come up (suicide attempts/threats, depressing threads hinting at the fact, etc). The last time this happened before he went crazy and posted all the gore, the people here dealt with it as good as anyone could - the cops were called and sent to his house as stated already, and thats probably the most responsible thing anyone on the internet could of done. So it's not that we don't care about someone threatening to commit suicide, we're just all sick of it - we've tried to help him numerous times but evidently we cant. He needs proper real life help, such as therapy by a real psychologist, and a bunch of teenagers on a runescape autoing forum cant realisticly be expected to be a substitution for that. Both him and his friends should of realised that by now.

When it comes down to it we come here to discuss computers, programming, and runescape, not to constantly have to deal with someone like this when none of us are qualified to, and by this time, not many would be wanting to bother when its highly doubtful he will actually die, and when its highly likely another situation like this will come up in a month or two.

And frankly, it just looks like attention whoring again. If he really wanted to kill himself, he would of succeded by now - its not hard to find a bridge to jump off, a train to jump in front of, or simply a knife. I'm not making suggestions, those are the first things that come to mind when thinking of ways to kill yourself, again if he was serious he would of considered these. If he rejected them, then he doesnt want to die. Not trying to be heartless…just calling it how I see it.

Very well said guys. Its time to end the madness.

/Close

Agreed.

Hey, Someone pass this on to IAN… seeing that I have his Real Life info as well….if he has one more person post for him, I make a call to the local police and get him the Real Help is is seeking…. I guess there is enough documented on this site for them to come and pick him up and have him committed to a mental institution… this is obvioulsy the only thing that is going to solve his problems !

I'm not trying to be a DICK, but I already told him, that if he creates a new account and keeps a low profile, he could come back…obviously this isn't good enough for him !!!!