Me? Attractive? WHAT?!
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 08:24:54
So anyways, I have been skating for about 3 years and not to long ago I went to the doctors and to sum it all up I have the knees of a 50 year old, and unless I don't stop skating for a while (Est time. 1 - 2 years) i wont be able to walk correctly by the time i'm 30 (Currently 16).
So I was pretty upset about it, i mean I've skated everyday of my life ever since I first started skating. My girlfriend decided she'd take me shopping, during that time she bought me some metro clothing and got me a haircut. Tbh i think it's really faggy.
My local council were holding this competition called "Most attractive" and for 2009 I won it… Well my girlfriend won it… Let me explain:
You see she came over one day… and got kinda upset that I hadn't wore my new clothes once, so i said i'd wear it for the whole day. Whilst I was waiting at the bus stop with her and she told me to put her scarf on… Like the whipped person I am I did and she told me to pose.. so I did.
This was the result:
The reason its in black and white is to hide the two megapixels =PThe prize was a $500 shopping voucher to Myer, Jayjays, Mossimo and Cotton On (All Clothing Stores). So that was pretty sweet, but the other half of the prize is a photo shoot and a spot in the local newspaper.
So for those who tl;dr
Gf sent picture into a comp without my permission and i'm really nervous because thousands and thousands of people will see it and i don't really feel comfortable with thousands of people looking at my picture. What should I do? I really don't see how i'm attractive.
P.s.. The reason why i'm coming to SRL is because I need a honest opinion without the "Internet Faggotry"
-BjRobMan
Harry
2009-07-12 08:27:30
Post a bigger image :o
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 08:32:48
Upped bigger picture… Sorry about the quality
Harry
2009-07-12 08:35:12
You have no clearer image? No "sauce" on the image your GF took?
senrath
2009-07-12 08:36:25
If you don't feel comfortable, then don't do the shoot. They can't force you to do it.
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 08:38:28
Got this off her facebook… Again it was taken by her phone.
The Claw
2009-07-12 08:40:23
Yeah you look pretty faggy
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 08:47:45
From: The Claw
Yeah you look pretty faggy
Yeah I know. I told my mother that and she was like "But Brendan, Girls like homosexuals" im just like "what?"
@Senrath
When I signed the form for my $500 voucher I didn't realize at that point of time that I had to do a photo shoot. And because i thought it was just the voucher i signed the form and later i read through it some more, and it said said something along the lines of "All parts of the contract must be for filled or all winnings will be revoked" or something like that. I've used the voucher and i wore some of the clothes which means I can not take it back. I don't have $500 to waste… And neither do my parents
senrath
2009-07-12 08:50:04
Oh, in which case you're pretty much SOL. Sorry, dude.
Brain
2009-07-12 09:08:57
From: BjRobMan
Yeah I know. I told my mother that and she was like "But Brendan, Girls like homosexuals" im just like "what?"
totally true, my gay friend gets so many ladies its….weird, and unfair
Good job, looks like you get to do a faggy photo shoot for the paper…take up biking or unicycling, they are both way cooler than skating.
Post a picture of your girlfriend:cool::rolleyes:
mormonman
2009-07-12 09:22:49
Go on a mass-murder rampage and kill everyone that works for the newspaper/photo shoot. Trust me, it will work, you will not have to be in a photo shoot… well at least one that is posted in the newspaper.
The Little
2009-07-12 09:25:36
Honestly, I hate scarfs >.>.
Don't think theres much you can do, hide if you lose the comp, and be proud if you win it.
faster789
2009-07-12 10:20:05
Wow so many haters, that pictures not bad, you remind me of one of those Jonas Brothers ( I hate them ) :), but yea I'm a brown guy, but I gotta say that pictures not bad. go for it :) well if u want to.
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 10:40:23
From: Brain
totally true, my gay friend gets so many ladies its….weird, and unfair
Good job, looks like you get to do a faggy photo shoot for the paper…take up biking or unicycling, they are both way cooler than skating.
Post a picture of your girlfriend:cool::rolleyes:
Lawl… I think thats true I'll give you 3 reasons
1. Girls can get close to them without the worry that they would get from a straight guy (i.e being used etc)
2. (Most) Girls usually want what they can't have
3. They kinda dress and act like girls?
Oh and here is the picture.
P.s.. This was taken at a pink party (Which explains my hair and shirt)… Ended up walking through Minto at 2:30 am…If anyones a local around that area they'll know what i mean.
From: mormonman
Go on a mass-murder rampage and kill everyone that works for the newspaper/photo shoot. Trust me, it will work, you will not have to be in a photo shoot… well at least one that is posted in the newspaper.
I'm quite sure that someone will get a picture…
From: faster789
Wow so many haters, that pictures not bad, you remind me of one of those Jonas Brothers ( I hate them ) :), but yea I'm a brown guy, but I gotta say that pictures not bad. go for it :) well if u want to.
Lawl.. I hate the Jonas Brothers as well… But people come up to me and say "Liek Oh em gee, you look liek that guy out of the high school musical movies… are you related to Zack Efron?"
Brain
2009-07-12 10:45:36
sweet, I can see down her shirt, good picture choice.
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 10:49:01
Wasn't really a choice… Dont really have many pictures of us… but (Y)
mormonman
2009-07-12 10:57:47
Emo much?
tarajunky
2009-07-12 11:15:18
Just have fun with it. Don't take your clothes off, lol.
But as a word of warning, my sister once dated a farmboy. Literally raised on a farm out in the country. My sister was a performer and after they had been dating for a while she ended up getting a job dancing for a circus that was touring around Mexico. Somehow she talked this farmboy into coming to dance in the circus too, and he ended up doing dance routines in cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, and a speedo for a few months until he realized how truly strange it was, quit the circus, broke up with my sister, and flew home. I guess girls can talk you into some pretty strange stuff.
So, I'd suggest you just set a few personal boundaries, and then have fun.
mormonman
2009-07-12 11:23:30
lol…
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 11:24:35
From: tarajunky
Just have fun with it. Don't take your clothes off, lol.
But as a word of warning, my sister once dated a farmboy. Literally raised on a farm out in the country. My sister was a performer and after they had been dating for a while she ended up getting a job dancing for a circus that was touring around Mexico. Somehow she talked this farmboy into coming to dance in the circus too, and he ended up doing dance routines in cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, and a speedo for a few months until he realized how truly strange it was, quit the circus, broke up with my sister, and flew home. I guess girls can talk you into some pretty strange stuff.
So, I'd suggest you just set a few personal boundaries, and then have fun.
Haha… Cool story bro (Y). Nah we both know where the boundaries stand for example, I wont distract her from her school work and we wont have sex for a long time.
tarajunky
2009-07-12 11:30:07
I meant don't take your clothes off for the photo shoot, but yeah, setting boundaries while dating is good sense as well. Kudos.
mormonman
2009-07-12 12:11:50
From: tarajunky
I meant don't take your clothes off for the photo shoot, but yeah, setting boundaries while dating is good sense as well. Kudos.
Tara, you always have good advice… watz ur s3cr3tz?!?
Pretty attractive. You > GF.
(Nice e-penis, btw ;))
BjRobMan
2009-07-12 15:31:35
From: 99_ aka ian.
Pretty attractive. You > GF.
(Nice e-penis, btw ;))
Umm… Thanks? :D
(Her names is Kristie BTW)
She's pretty.

That's Erin. She's my ex, but we had sex yesterday, so we're kinda together, I guess? :p
Crazydictator
2009-07-12 16:13:05
From: 99_ aka ian.
She's pretty.

That's Erin. She's my ex, but we had sex yesterday, so we're kinda together, I guess? :p
Friends with benefits? :D
Pure1993
2009-07-12 16:13:23
From: 99_ aka ian.
She's pretty.

That's Erin. She's my ex, but we had sex yesterday, so we're kinda together, I guess? :p
Is it just me, or is every second one of your posts reffering to your sexual experiences? xD
Anyway, if you are unconfortable with "thousands of people" seeing your picture…
why post it on the web? I honestly can't see the logic… :rolleyes:
Anyway, it's not
that terrible… a bit of photoshop and it's a pic you can be proud of… ;)
From: Pure1993
Is it just me, or is every second one of your posts reffering to your sexual experiences? xD
Anyway, if you are unconfortable with "thousands of people" seeing your picture… why post it on the web? I honestly can't see the logic… :rolleyes:
Anyway, it's not that terrible… a bit of photoshop and it's a pic you can be proud of… ;)
Read more of my posts, love. ;) Just the ones when you're on are about sex. :p
BjRobMan
2009-07-13 02:41:12
From: Pure1993
Anyway, if you are unconfortable with "thousands of people" seeing your picture… why post it on the web? I honestly can't see the logic…
Because you don't actually Know me IRL. I know a lot of people and I have a bit of a… Reputation? Of being a skater and etc.
Buckleyindahouse
2009-07-13 03:01:44
Soo, skating messed up your knees or is something else?
Also, don't worry bout the pic, that's how people are dressing today anyways.
People at my school be wearing scarfs and shit inside but its 103 degrees outside.
Ruroken
2009-07-13 03:26:24
From: tarajunky
Just have fun with it. Don't take your clothes off, lol.
But as a word of warning, my sister once dated a farmboy. Literally raised on a farm out in the country. My sister was a performer and after they had been dating for a while she ended up getting a job dancing for a circus that was touring around Mexico. Somehow she talked this farmboy into coming to dance in the circus too, and he ended up doing dance routines in cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, and a speedo for a few months until he realized how truly strange it was, quit the circus, broke up with my sister, and flew home. I guess girls can talk you into some pretty strange stuff.
So, I'd suggest you just set a few personal boundaries, and then have fun.
Greatest story I've heard all day.
MetalancA
2009-07-13 05:06:57
From: BjRobMan
Yeah I know. I told my mother that and she was like "But Brendan, Girls like homosexuals" im just like "what?"
LOL
Tbh if you loose the scarf you'd look fine.
The only thing that comes close to a guy wearing a scarf gay-wise is a guy wearing heavy sunglasses on the collar of a v-neck shirt.
Infantry001
2009-07-13 05:10:11
Yeah, no homo, but you look alright. I mean, that's how everyone dresses nowadays anyways. Don't worry about it - do it once, get the $500, and you're good =)
P.S. Coming here and not expecting some internet faggotry was silly… 0_o
Hobbit
2009-07-13 05:30:25
Not gonna lie but the picture at the pink party, took me a couple of seconds to realize it was a picture of you and a girl. At first I thought it was just 2 random girls.
Yeah sorry but I think you need to stand up to her and shop for your own clothes on the mens side of the store ;)
BobboHobbo
2009-07-13 05:39:58
From: BjRobMan
P.s.. This was taken at a pink party (Which explains my hair and shirt)… Ended up walking through Minto at 2:30 am…If anyones a local around that area they'll know what i mean.
Are you talking Minto at Sydney, NSW, Australia???? if so, surprised you didn't get rapped.
Baked0420
2009-07-13 06:08:32
From: tarajunky
Just have fun with it. Don't take your clothes off, lol.
But as a word of warning, my sister once dated a farmboy. Literally raised on a farm out in the country. My sister was a performer and after they had been dating for a while she ended up getting a job dancing for a circus that was touring around Mexico. Somehow she talked this farmboy into coming to dance in the circus too, and he ended up doing dance routines in cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, and a speedo for a few months until he realized how truly strange it was, quit the circus, broke up with my sister, and flew home. I guess girls can talk you into some pretty strange stuff.
So, I'd suggest you just set a few personal boundaries, and then have fun.
lmao are you really serious? I feel bad for that farm boy :p.
And Bjrob, don't worry about reputation, just do your photoshoot, enjoy the once in a lifetime chance (not that I'd really be excited bout one either though :p) and if anyone has anything to say about it, just beat them with your board, I'm sure it can do some serious damage to a skull and probably few people will say anything bout your photoshoot.
But seriously, just do it, get it done and over with, one day you'll forget if you didn't like it, maybe. But eventually it won't be on people's minds and you'll go back to your skater image, I'm sure it'll be like it never happened after like 2-4 months.
EDIT:
From: Hobbit
Not gonna lie but the picture at the pink party, took me a couple of seconds to realize it was a picture of you and a girl. At first I thought it was just 2 random girls.
Yeah sorry but I think you need to stand up to her and shop for your own clothes on the mens side of the store ;)
lol Hobbit, a little mean but funny, but you do look a little gay in that picture no offense.
Hmm, pretend to be homo to get chicks, and say that they changed you, and you would like to try to have sex.
From: ZaSz
Hmm, pretend to be homo to get chicks, and say that they changed you, and you would like to try to have sex.
I did this. ;D No joke. That's how I got Erin. ^^

(Just to grow the e-penis ;) haha)
BjRobMan
2009-07-13 13:15:45
From: Hobbit
Not gonna lie but the picture at the pink party, took me a couple of seconds to realize it was a picture of you and a girl. At first I thought it was just 2 random girls.
Yeah sorry but I think you need to stand up to her and shop for your own clothes on the mens side of the store ;)
Haha will do
From: BobboHobbo
Are you talking Minto at Sydney, NSW, Australia???? if so, surprised you didn't get rapped.
Yup, none other. I had to walk on the industrial side near the Petrol Station, i swear i heard some guy mowing his lawn. And it was so cold… i went to put my money in the ticket machine and my hand cramped up…
From: ZaSz
Hmm, pretend to be homo to get chicks, and say that they changed you, and you would like to try to have sex.
Thats why my cousin is doing. Lawl.
From: 99_ aka ian.
I did this. ;D No joke. That's how I got Erin. ^^

(Just to grow the e-penis ;) haha)
Lawl.
BobboHobbo
2009-07-13 17:48:48
From: BjRobMan
Yup, none other. I had to walk on the industrial side near the Petrol Station, i swear i heard some guy mowing his lawn. And it was so cold… i went to put my money in the ticket machine and my hand cramped up…
Lol yeah, that place is weird. My bus goes to Minto Macca's then down to Minto Station in the arvo, like at the maccas bus stop all these "tough" people come and start hitting + swearing at the bus and waving there rude fingers at us and some of em are like 5 years old. Oh and some super fat 10 year old catches the bus at maccas, his like 2 meters wide he has no chin its just fat and his like 1.5m tall, looks like a massive fat ball with a bit of hair. Had to point that out xD.
Minto = boganville xD.
n3ss3s
2009-07-13 18:01:38
Don't worry, here everyone looks like that aswell, but the scarf draws a certain line, e.g there are trendy people, trendy people with a scarf, and homosexuals.
Lance
2009-07-14 01:37:17
haha imo you look good, how can it be gay if thats what turns girls on?
realy whos streighter; the manly guy who never gets laid, or the mettro guy who hits everything he sees?
Smarter Child
2009-07-14 01:52:55
Holy Crap! You should really ummm where manly clothing..*cough* You reputation is your life *cough* Not getting girls by being a HOMOSEXUAL! HAHAH, I honestly thought you were a girl.. No offense..
From: Smarter Child
Holy Crap! You should really ummm where manly clothing..*cough* You reputation is your life *cough* Not getting girls by being a HOMOSEXUAL! HAHAH, I honestly thought you were a girl.. No offense..
I've been mistaken for an anorexic teenage chick for years, but I get girls. Your argument is invalid.
Brain
2009-07-14 02:03:30
From: 99_ aka ian.
I've been mistaken for an anorexic teenage chick for years, but I get girls. Your argument is invalid.
wait…you're not?
Darn….I'm taking all the pictures of you off my walls!
Lance
2009-07-14 02:12:34
From: 99_ aka ian.
I've been mistaken for an anorexic teenage chick for years, but I get girls. Your argument is invalid.
wtf you dont look feminine at all o.O
and smarter child
getting vag + being confidant in your sexuality = win
why should wearing mettro cloths matter? who cares if your rep is at stake.
the girls like it… and your friends would know the truth that your streight..
if gay guys come onto you just give em the finger.
why does it matter what other people think? lol
3Garrett3
2009-07-14 04:55:35
Wait wait wait… No way. I went the whole convo thinking that you were skating on ice.. like in hockey. I was like "Woah cool" but then I was like.. oh. Stupid Canada.
I think you looked pretty sexy. Give it a shot, like Lance said, who cares what people think?
Sean[714]
2009-07-14 08:48:43
Cool!
Free 500 dollars.
And just think of all the hot girls will see your fine pictures in the newspaper!
From: Brain
wait…you're not?
Darn….I'm taking all the pictures of you off my walls!
<3.
Lance FTW..
Who give's a shit what people think when your banging his gf behind his back ;D ;D ;D
Hey? Hey? Hey!?
Swift
2009-07-16 16:43:24
From: BjRobMan
She's not hott…at all…to be honest.
From: yosupg
Lolz,this is good to know :P
Mr. Spamalot. Please report to the principle.
iJake
2009-07-16 23:16:59
Your pretty sexy.
What's wrong with gays?
Lance
2009-07-17 00:11:48
From: iJake
Your pretty sexy.
What's wrong with gays?
EVERYTHING! We as americans cannot alow such perversion!
jkk im canadian and gays are alright
3Garrett3
2009-07-17 01:30:48
From: lancerawks aka Lance
EVERYTHING! We as americans cannot alow such perversion!
Excluding obvious white text for reasons of myself being lazy and not feeling like ruining it for the blind kids… The only reason is because we as Canadians are secure with our sexuality and love hitting on guys. Especially in the hockey dressing rooms, something those americans just don't like. :(.
sirlaughsalot
2009-07-17 02:52:19
From: 3Garrett3
Excluding obvious white text for reasons of myself being lazy and not feeling like ruining it for the blind kids… The only reason is because we as Canadians are secure with our sexuality and love hitting on guys. Especially in the hockey dressing rooms, something those americans just don't like. :(.
Liar, im american, have you ever actually read our conversations?
Also, I think you are pretty darn attractive for a dude, but tight pants=faggotry. Girls love them, including my girl, but I told her I will never wear them. I am 6'4" I look tall enough already, I dont need skinny jeans to point out my chicken legs.
3Garrett3
2009-07-17 04:16:56
From: sirlaughsalot
Liar, im american, have you ever actually read our conversations?
Also, I think you are pretty darn attractive for a dude, but tight pants=faggotry. Girls love them, including my girl, but I told her I will never wear them. I am 6'4" I look tall enough already, I dont need skinny jeans to point out my chicken legs.
Deep down on the inside you are a Canadian. That is a compliment my friend <3
D1zl3
2009-07-21 10:24:04
You sortof look like one of the jonas brothers, someone alrady said that:P
my gf thinks they're hot :rolleyes:
[-jesus-]
2009-07-21 11:20:03
From: 99_ aka ian.
She's pretty.

That's Erin. She's my ex, but we had sex yesterday, so we're kinda together, I guess? :p
moar liek
Ouivile
2009-07-21 11:38:43
From: The Claw
Yeah you look pretty faggy
lol. way to spit it out. coulda said somthing like "u dont look straight enough" lol make it better. unfortuntly hes right. shouldnt prbly not bend ur knee like that. thats pretty much what does it for u haha.
jayzarks95
2009-07-21 18:30:14
just do it, it could be fun..
lol
i say this about everything in life,
dont pass things up, cuz you dont know when you will have the chance again.
what if you do it and get like some 3 million dollar modeling contract or something??
that would kick ass right?
just do it
marpis
2009-07-21 18:57:38
From: Swift
She's not hott…at all…to be honest.
thats not a very nice thing to say, especially when you have only seen 1 picture -_-'
NiCbaZ
2009-07-22 15:56:10
To answer the the thread title, no your not attractive.
Feroc1ty
2009-07-24 03:08:35
From: Swift
She's not hott…at all…to be honest.
Agreed.
Sandstorm
2009-07-31 19:40:24
[offtopic]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwDvF0NtgdU[/offtopic]
It's all a matter of opinion, honestly. Some people might think you're attractive, others may not. Just get on with life ^.^.
~Sandstorm
Coh3n
2009-07-31 20:26:48
From: Sandstorm
It's all a matter of opinion, honestly. Some people might think you're attractive, others may not. Just get on with life ^.^.
~Sandstorm
/thread
From: [-jesus-]
moar liek
Mmm.. If only Erin was Boxxy.. <3 :( I would came buckets.
Laur€ns
2009-07-31 21:38:00
From: ian.
Mmm.. If only Erin was Boxxy.. <3 :( I would came buckets.
Seriously, go see a psychiatrist. NOW!
From: Laur€ns
Seriously, go see a psychiatrist. NOW!

You don't tell me what to do.
Laur€ns
2009-08-07 14:14:11
From: ian.

You don't tell me what to do.
I has moar longevity.