SRL Archive - Celebratory Events

I had sex yesterday for the first time in my life.

It was after the school ending party with a girl whom I have been friend with for about 2 years.

We started going out together 2 months ago (approximately).

I'm a little ashamed though, as it only lasted about 10 minutes.

Now a problem :

I feel wierd when I talk to her now as if she was a stranger, help me please.

Edit : used a condom by the way.

welcome to the club, its golden.

and just be confident and she will feel confident around you

p.s, wank a little to increse your time ;)

:/ Just don't think about it? People have sex all the time. It's not as big of a deal as it seems. :]

From: 99_
:/ Just don't think about it? People have sex all the time. It's not as big of a deal as it seems. :]

For a first time :-(.

Age? Grats also.

Mate! I dont know why you think THAT is awkward. I sexed one of my best friends and she made me pull out before I came. Now THAT is awkward.

My first time was like.. last week.. I didn't think it was awkward because we love each other.. >.> idk. it's just like.. it's gonna happen a lot in your life (hopefully :p) so don't worry too much. when you get someone pregnant and you're too young/not together then it'll be awkward :p

From: Zasz
Age? Grats also.

I'm 15.

Hooray for being one of the last few virgins!

From: 99_
:/ Just don't think about it? People have sex all the time. It's not as big of a deal as it seems. :]

You speak from experience? And you're about 15 aren't you? If so it should still be quite a big deal.

From: Dr D. Dervish
I had sex yesterday for the first time in my life.

It was after the school ending party with a girl whom I have been friend with for about 2 years.

We started going out together 2 months ago (approximately).

I'm a little ashamed though, as it only lasted about 10 minutes.

Now a problem :

I feel wierd when I talk to her now as if she was a stranger, help me please.

First explain why you feel weird then we will aid you.

Horaay for richard + me.

you'll feel more natural about it in time, use protection! be smart and safe.

Its kinda like the first time you take a public shower with your friends and stuff…you're a little embarrassed, and unsure of how to act, but after a while it just becomes no big deal.

edit: ok..that sounded kinda gay…I don't go to public showers with my friends, I mean at like the gym. We obviously stay as far away from each other as possible, but you're still naked in the same room your friend, and it's kinda awkward.

Uhh…. wait wait wait, let me read it again… i'll edit my post later O_o…

E: i have no idea… what do you mean???

From: NaumanAkhlaQ
First explain why you feel weird then we will aid you.

Horaay for richard + me.

I do not know :(. It feels like each time we meet and look at eachother, hold eachother, kiss eachother she thinks of it and I'm scared I did something wrong.

Edit : I used a condom.

From: Dr D. Dervish
I do not know :(. It feels like each time we meet and look at eachother, hold eachother, kiss eachother she thinks of it and I'm scared I did something wrong.

Edit : I used a condom.

I've never been in a situation like this before, but just be confident around her, don't worry about anything (this doesn't mean do anything you normally wouldn't).

Do it again she might forget your first time?

Oh, i got it finally…

Well let me Explain what i think about it.

It's pretty normal, you're in love with her, that happened to me over 20 times, each time i did something with her (kiss or whatever), i just had the feeling i am doing something wrong, that's normal, just realize how much you love her, and you'll find the right movements…

From: Tickyy
Oh, i got it finally…

Well let me Explain what i think about it.

It's pretty normal, you're in love with her, that happened to me over 20 times, each time i did something with her (kiss or whatever), i just had the feeling i am doing something wrong, that's normal, just realize how much you love her, and you'll find the right movements…

I think that myself, but if I did something wrong, how would I learn ? Just do it more ?

Brian, I get you. I mean me and my best mate shared a bath with this girl, at first, it was awkward but then other 'things' get in your mind and you dont care.

Dervish, she probably just likes spending time with you and feels your relationship is more deep now so it feels like she is being awkward, but in reality it just means your relationship has reached a deeper level.

From: Torrent of Flame
Brian, I get you. I mean me and my best mate shared a bath with this girl, at first, it was awkward but then other 'things' get in your mind and you dont care.

Dervish, she probably just likes spending time with you and feels your relationship is more deep now so it feels like she is being awkward, but in reality it just means your relationship has reached a deeper level.

Well, brian was talking about strangers :norris:

You and your best friend took a bath with this girl? Wtf lol :confused: :eek: :)

:bart: When this happen lol

From: Richard
You speak from experience? And you're about 15 aren't you? If so it should still be quite a big deal.

Yes, I'm 15 and I don't think it's a big deal because we love each other. If we didn't, it'd be a big deal, or if she got pregnant, it'd be a big deal.

Was it her first time too?

The same day I was having sex with the same girl.

Well aren't you a player. Haha ;]

99_, dont go there xD

Congrats! Hurray for me, Richard, and NaumanAkhlaQ!

If I recall your statement, it's just normal to have sex at that age?
How did your parents react?

From: Griff721
Congrats! Hurray for me, Richard, and NaumanAkhlaQ!

Add me.

Just to notice, if you do it after all, do it safe ;). You ruin her and your life if it goes wrong.
Respect.

Good job, this is a good way to get a baby

oookay… i was expecting something funny with this title.

I don't really think this is suited for this specific forum :S

bleh :/

~RM

This is the internet. Expect no sensible help/advice.

Stick it in her pooper.

What can she expect?! After all, it was the first time…

You did good, thinking otherwise will just drive you crazy..

From: mixster
This is the internet. Expect no sensible help/advice.

Stick it in her pooper.

I lol'd at that.

10 minutes congrats. You watch to much internetz to make you believe thats bad. Get older = Last longer.

From: Zasz
Get older = Last longer.

Truth, I did it when I was 16 for the first time, now I easily last WAY longer than I used to, and of course, I'm way more skilled ;) so I don't even require that much time anyway.

From: Hermen

Just to notice, if you do it after all, do it safe ;). You ruin her and your life if it goes wrong.
Respect.

ruins your life aswell :/ if were weren't drunk, it shouldnt be awkward. If you were really really drunk, then that might be a bit awkward. Just dont bring it up with her, and try to keep this as normal as they were.

lol my first time i went about hour and a half :p that was mainly because it was cold because it was winter and we where on a golf course :p

If you act like it happened, you are only making it awkward yourself.

Were you drunk btw? Just curious.

Cmon now, don't do something then go make a thread about it at a programming forum.
Just keep it to yourself as an accomplishment, not something you brag about considering everyone is going to do it at one point.

Thats like running down the street saying I beat halo 3 the same night it was released.

From: Buckleyindahouse
Thats like running down the street saying I beat halo 3 the same night it was released.

Someone has a guilty conscience..

From: Nava2
Someone has a guilty conscience..

I had to laugh, lol

I don't know if he's really bragging, since you're right, sex isn't much to brag about…

Meh, it is sorta "congrats to me, I lost my virginity". It is one of those special things in life you only can do once. Grats ;)

From: Buckleyindahouse
Thats like running down the street saying I beat halo 3 the same night it was released.

To me it's like running down the street saying you beat Halo 3 when it's long out of date, which also something you do not brag about on a programming forum….

Although, congrats, I guess.

From: Nava2
If you act like it happened, you are only making it awkward yourself.

Were you drunk btw? Just curious.

I wasn't drunk.
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Before, when nobody talked we could manage the time (kisses and stuff) now its just blank and it feels… Wierd :(.

Thanks guys.

Don't feel awkward. If you love her (REALLY sorry if you don't :/) then you should be happy. The girl you love took your virginity. And she's the only person who will ever be able to do that to you. :] Again, was it her first time?

From: 99_
Don't feel awkward. If you love her (REALLY sorry if you don't :/) then you should be happy. The girl you love took your virginity. And she's the only person who will ever be able to do that to you. :] Again, was it her first time?

It was her first time. And I do love her. I guess it will get better over time.

Considering the way she is acting, I would believe that it was.

Edit: Ninja'd.

Uhm, gratz I guess.

Who brought up the "brag" argument, you can clearly see that he is worried and then you're going to say he is bragging.

Well don't worry then :p She wouldn't know if you did it wrong if it's her first time. :] She probably liked it, it's fine. Do it some more ;D haha

From: Iron Man
To me it's like running down the street saying you beat Halo 3 when it's long out of date, which also something you do not brag about on a programming forum….

Although, congrats, I guess.

too bad i dont play Halo…

From: Nava2
Someone has a guilty conscience..

lol, na, just an example.

nao, after you lost your virginity, you should try some buttsex :p xD

From: Tickyy
nao, after you lost your virginity, you should try some buttsex :p xD

I find anal sex to be a sign of lack of respect to the girl and disgusting.

From: Dr D. Dervish
I find anal sex to be a sign of lack of respect to the girl and disgusting.

So pleasure = disrespect?

Yeah.. if she likes it, then how is it dissrespectful? :]

From: lordsaturn
So pleasure = disrespect?

Not everybody likes it… Some girls even hate it.

Jesus.

lolwut? And just because some girls hate it doesn't mean it's disrespectful for everyone.

Are you serious about anal sex being disrespectful and it does not feel good (to the girl) ? Maybe you should find some sex forum and look around, I'm pretty sure people claim otherwise… There is a reason girls put pointy things up their bottoms…

AND it is NOT, to fart on a lower frequency.

From: n3ss3s
Are you serious about anal sex being disrespectful and it does not feel good (to the girl) ? Maybe you should find some sex forum and look around, I'm pretty sure people claim otherwise… There is a reason girls put pointy things up their bottoms…

AND it is NOT, to fart on a lower frequency.

I LOLD SO HARD.

In my opinion, its not disrespectful unless the girl doesn't want it and its forced.

If it feels good, whats the issue?

Btw, just a suggestion, this should probably be moved here:
http://www.villavu.com/forum/showthread.php?t=46296

From: Nava2
I LOLD SO HARD.

In my opinion, its not disrespectful unless the girl doesn't want it and its forced.

If it feels good, whats the issue?

Btw, just a suggestion, this should probably be moved here:
http://www.villavu.com/forum/showthread.php?t=46296

That's basically what I mean.

If she tells me she likes it , I'll do it.

Can we move all the sex talk to a different forum, perhaps? (As n3ss3s suggested.)

From: Wizzup?
Can we move all the sex talk to a different forum, perhaps? (As n3ss3s suggested.)

OR the haters can just ignore this topic :).

I don't take every chance I get to offend someone, so I wouldn't call myself a "hater".
Closed.