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Does fighting make you immature?


Naike

2009-05-19 18:28:53

Does it?

Example: If i asked his Girlfriend out, and i know he will try to hit me..
Then why should i wait for him, if i see him walking towards me?.


So, Does fighting make you immature?
- Discuss

footballjds

2009-05-19 18:30:35

heck no!
Fighting is good, ;)

Tickyy

2009-05-19 18:33:27

well, not after you make an age like 30…

but i like to fight :p!

ShowerThoughts

2009-05-19 19:35:42

Depends on your atk def and str level.
If you're to strong, it isn't fair ;).

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-19 19:40:24

It can do. It depends on the circumstance of the fight. If someone tries to start on you and you can get away, but you choose to fight to 'make me the hard one' then yes, it makes you immature.

The only time, in my opinion, it doesnt make you immature is if it is in self defence, and is a last resort. I mean I'm coming up 16 and I have never had one fight. I dont provoke them, and if someone does start something, I walk off.

Blumblebee

2009-05-19 19:44:22

fighting is immature in the sense that honestly 90% of things that are settled with a fight can be settled by talking. I know a kid at my school, he was great at basketball, was offered scholorships (spelling check :)) for volleyball and he blew it all fighting with some guy when he was piss drunk, broke his arm and fucked something in it so he needed surgery, and now he cant play sports anymore.

Pietz0r

2009-05-19 19:46:58

Just never make the first punch.
(Unless you're more than 10% sure his first punch is going to hurt you:P)

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-19 19:53:21

From: Pietz0r
Just never make the first punch.
(Unless you're more than 10% sure his first punch is going to hurt you:P)


Thats retarded. If there is no other way to not fight, you HAVE to make the first punch.

ShowerThoughts

2009-05-19 19:54:27

From: Torrent of Flame
Thats retarded. If there is no other way to not fight, you HAVE to make the first punch.


It's not to hard to avoid it, I actually never fight(fought?) in a big fight.

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-19 19:57:28

From: Torrent of Flame
It can do. It depends on the circumstance of the fight. If someone tries to start on you and you can get away, but you choose to fight to 'make me the hard one' then yes, it makes you immature.

The only time, in my opinion, it doesnt make you immature is if it is in self defence, and is a last resort. I mean I'm coming up 16 and I have never had one fight. I dont provoke them, and if someone does start something, I walk off.


Hermen. ^

ShowerThoughts

2009-05-19 19:58:34

From: Torrent of Flame
Hermen. ^


It was like an exact copy of mine^ lol

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-19 20:02:02

From: Hermen
It was like an exact copy of mine^ lol


I do believe I posted mine first.

ShowerThoughts

2009-05-19 20:16:28

From: Torrent of Flame
I do believe I posted mine first.

:'(.

Pietz0r

2009-05-19 20:19:37

From: Torrent of Flame
Thats retarded. If there is no other way to not fight, you HAVE to make the first punch.


Well.. Just as a fighting tactic it may not be as smart. But in the regular barfight kinda thing Im usually in, people tend to help the guy who takes the first hit.. Also if you take the first hit you can beat the shit out of him and say its self defence or whatever. :)
BUt this only works if youre sure you can have the guy:P

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-19 20:24:24

From: Pietz0r
Well.. Just as a fighting tactic it may not be as smart. But in the regular barfight kinda thing Im usually in, people tend to help the guy who takes the first hit.. Also if you take the first hit you can beat the shit out of him and say its self defence or whatever. :)
BUt this only works if youre sure you can have the guy:P


Your an idiot. Why do you think fighting is cool? GAAH. People like you are tools and one day you will start on the wrong guy and get very hurt. I hope you do.

Hugolord

2009-05-19 20:45:15

Depends on why you get into a fight :S
Asking his girlfriends out with be a stupid thing to do in the first place.

MetalancA

2009-05-19 21:05:22

I would say yes; fighting is expressing your anger physically instead of through communication. In other words, fighting is for idiots too stupid to express their ideas verbally so they just throw a punch.

The only fighting I condone is in self defense, if you're getting mugged or if someone isn't leaving you alone no matter what you say or do.

NCDS

2009-05-19 22:55:31

Yes and No.

If you Start fights for no other reason then to fight, then yes, you are immature.

Although, if you believe something is worth fighting for, then those are your feelings and it shouldn't matter to you what other people think about it.

Naike

2009-05-19 23:25:51

Time i share my opinion then..

A guy, 2 year younger then me comes up and tells me what a faggot i am and bitch slaps me. He's being all serious and i can see how his fist is tense, so he want to hit me.

Why shouldn't i be allowed to kick his ass, without being immature?
Not doing it, and calling a teacher would be immature.

So i say, fuck with the ones fucking with you ;D

NCDS

2009-05-19 23:28:07

In that situation I would say you are completely justified to hit him back, and I would do so. ;)

Naum

2009-05-19 23:29:46

Its a spur of the moment - 'fight or flight'.
You really can't think about it, but common sense kicks in - if you can fight the bloke and there is no other way out of it then, yes better him bruised than you.

If its a younger kid being all lippy then beat the shit out of him!

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-19 23:51:15

Well N1ke, you never said THAT. It wouldnt really be a fight, lets be honest. Hit him once and he would go down :p

Home

2009-05-20 00:22:48

Well if you ever hitted someone really hard, then you probaly understand what i mean.
I think if you are the mart one, you would run, of course there will be situtations that all what you can do is defence yourself, and yes sometimes, your must really strike back..

~Home

Nava2

2009-05-20 00:29:48

I have fought several times, but only in self defense. Usually, I end up stomach punch, and just push em over and walk away.

I'm NEVER the aggressor. EVER.

The aggressor is immature.

Pure1993

2009-05-20 00:41:44

I agree with Nava… Fighting is only acceptable if you are the "official" victim, thus only defending yourself. Now, a real fight is usually damn humiliating for all participants, becasue a huge crowd of people usually gather and watch the fight… the winner will get punished by a teacher, the loser is humiliated before the class mates, and both have bruises… no thanks… I got into a fight twice in my life, once I was the guy who got beaten the shit out of (that hurt… I wasn't trained or expecting the guy to attack me :() and once I beat the idiot down who thought it was funny to punch me in the stomach and to watch my reaction… idiot… -.-

Simple rule: Dodge the first attack -> Counter the attack -> quickly follow up with further attacks -> If he runs away, let him or continue the last step till he is on the ground -> if he is on the ground, simply walk away like nothing happened, but watch out, because he will surely attack you again -> make sure a teacher is very close to you, so the other one gets the full blame for attacking you.

Naike

2009-05-20 00:50:22

Victim or not
I got my limit, don't push over it.

Tell jokes about my little sister for example, and you deserv it..

Pure1993: You make it sound like a video game, COUNTER ATTACK THAT BASTARD!!

Kasi

2009-05-20 01:25:06

depends who ur fighting realy if its a chav knock the shit out of them
Edit : im sorry if i offended all u chavs …. oj

mixster

2009-05-20 01:46:29

Just think: "What would Chuck Norris do" and the answer is clear.

For those who are ill informed about Chuck Norris, he roundhouse kicks you in the head and you die. He only does it to people who deserve it though, either because they are bad guys or because they started on him (rather foolishly).

Kave

2009-05-20 01:53:11

it takes the bigger man to walk away from a fight = old saying.

but if your against a wall with no exits your not just going to let him pound you so of course fighting is acceptable, if this a school fight i wouldnt throw the first punch as your much more likely to get more of the blame if you do.

BKNYKavkaz

2009-05-20 02:04:40

From: Kave
it takes the bigger man to walk away from a fight = old saying.


lol around here, we call those kind of people herbs. You walk away from a fight once, or show that your scared, and your done, everyone would turn on u, including some of your friends.

I personally don't mind knocking someone out once in a while, but never for no reason. Sometimes theres this big ass douchebag that acts mad tough and picks on every kid half his size, i mean, how can you resist snuffing him?

If you knew me in real life, im really calm and am not so aggressive, but when you get me started, then its like hell, i totally change.


point is, fighting is not immature, depends on the situation. i mean, if your like 250lbs and you knock out a guy thats half your size for a bullshit reason, then thats immature. if he fucked ur bitch then he deserves it.

However, whats truely immature is when some people act mad tough, but then when they get to it, they pussy out, that just aggrevates me.

Torrent of Flame

2009-05-20 11:10:00

From: caustic
lol around here, we call those kind of people herbs. You walk away from a fight once, or show that your scared, and your done, everyone would turn on u, including some of your friends.

I personally don't mind knocking someone out once in a while, but never for no reason. Sometimes theres this big ass douchebag that acts mad tough and picks on every kid half his size, i mean, how can you resist snuffing him?

If you knew me in real life, im really calm and am not so aggressive, but when you get me started, then its like hell, i totally change.


point is, fighting is not immature, depends on the situation. i mean, if your like 250lbs and you knock out a guy thats half your size for a bullshit reason, then thats immature. if he fucked ur bitch then he deserves it.

However, whats truely immature is when some people act mad tough, but then when they get to it, they pussy out, that just aggrevates me.


Yeh! You tell 'em g!

Sorry. Just playing. But you have a point. If the situation arises to fight, or you HAVE to fight to maintain some sort of dignity, then I suppose fighting in that sense isnt immature.

Hugolord

2009-05-20 14:31:16

On a serious note, if you do intend to fight someone you better be sure that someone doesn't do a martial art like MMA/ Muay thai.
Because if he DOES, even if he is 2 years younger than you, he is most likely going to kick your ass.

Kasi

2009-05-20 20:59:40

i used to do martial arts but im crap at it lol got bored at purple belt

Nadeem

2009-05-20 21:34:50

I think its fighting does not make you immature, as long as you fight in a sensible way :P (Not like go too krzy about it and boost yourself).

I fought this guy once over a dollar… Now thats immature fighting :P (He started it, lol, he wanted to fight because he didn't want people to think he was soft and would let me get away with a dollar which really I didn't even take). Thats what you would call a damn immature fight xD

I've never really been in a fight for something good though, so maybe someone can fill in a story for a good fight :P



~NS

Naike

2009-05-21 22:33:42

Well,

I fight everyone that naggs or even tries to hurt me..
Show respect and i do the same.

Dynamite

2009-05-21 22:40:16

My supposed 'Best friend' kissed my girlfriend, so i knocked him, out.
That was immature, I think.
If you think that you should but you still think they are ok friends, then you should just talk to them face to face.

T~M

Z3r0Grav

2009-05-22 12:03:23

blah blah fighting is imature …. some of you have no street experience by the looks of it, ive never hit anyone first, but i smoke cannabis, i go raving, i go to lots of bars, your always gonig to find the one person, who is out to mug you, so fucked they dont know what there doing ect.

i live in london, i dont start fights , if im hit i will hit back, if im in the fight im there to win.

the point is its not smart to fight but sometimes its natural (its natural in life) obvisouly if theres 2v1 or even more then i start looking for weapons or a quick get away

also if you do lots of martial arts (i do lots tai muay kciknig boxing, tae kwon do i do most of it for fitness) but it comes in useful very ^^

also few street fighting tips -

a.clipper or lighter in your fist - makes it mroe of a solid punch

b. do a. but put coins inbetween your fingers

c. if you wear chains or whatever

d. aim for there weak points - solar plexus, knees, temple or kidneys

e. use you elbows and knees there the msot solid part of you if u connect with a nice elbow to there face there likly to go down hard




a few storys all in my area (all true so believe me if u want i dont care)

1. i was surrounded by about 6-7 14 year olds, the oldest having a hand held Scythe yes Scythe, luckily they wernt after me and let me go also i knew the kid so he let me go without trouble, but wtf 14 years olds with a scythe

2. my mate was picknig up an 1/8 of coke (coke is stupid anyway) he got mugged by a guy wit ha sameri sword :/

[S]paz

2012-05-22 05:03:39

05-22-2009, 05:03 PM

Err bit of a GraveDig my friend…

[D]ude

2012-05-22 14:12:17

From: Z3r0Grav
blah blah fighting is imature …. some of you have no street experience by the looks of it, ive never hit anyone first, but i smoke cannabis, i go raving, i go to lots of bars, your always gonig to find the one person, who is out to mug you, so fucked they dont know what there doing ect.

i live in london, i dont start fights , if im hit i will hit back, if im in the fight im there to win.

the point is its not smart to fight but sometimes its natural (its natural in life) obvisouly if theres 2v1 or even more then i start looking for weapons or a quick get away

also if you do lots of martial arts (i do lots tai muay kciknig boxing, tae kwon do i do most of it for fitness) but it comes in useful very ^^

also few street fighting tips -

a.clipper or lighter in your fist - makes it mroe of a solid punch

b. do a. but put coins inbetween your fingers

c. if you wear chains or whatever

d. aim for there weak points - solar plexus, knees, temple or kidneys

e. use you elbows and knees there the msot solid part of you if u connect with a nice elbow to there face there likly to go down hard




a few storys all in my area (all true so believe me if u want i dont care)

1. i was surrounded by about 6-7 14 year olds, the oldest having a hand held Scythe yes Scythe, luckily they wernt after me and let me go also i knew the kid so he let me go without trouble, but wtf 14 years olds with a scythe

2. my mate was picknig up an 1/8 of coke (coke is stupid anyway) he got mugged by a guy wit ha sameri sword :/



You gotta remember though if you use your elbows or knees to be careful. My uncle was murdered by an elbow to the face. My uncle wasn't the aggressor either, and the guy is in jail now. I don't especially like fighting, but I won't walk away from one if I'm the victim.

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2012-05-23 09:04:20

Not at all in my opinion, and the only ones who say that shit are the weak and those ugly bitches no one dates. I fight as a hobby (MMA) and have wrestled all threw out highschool. Now i will say that your an idiot if you go around looking for a street fight all the time because its all fun and games until someone pulls out a gun. I had to learn the hard way and thats how i found MMA.

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Runepwnage

2012-05-24 22:11:11

It all depends on what you're fighting from, stealing someone's love for yourself kinda just makes you a dickhead.