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What age do you think that a person should get a gf/bf


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I personally think after college, 22 or so, since it affects your grades.

Voted 10 - 20. I really doesn't affect your grades. As I told you on MSN, I had a girlfriend for quite a while, and I had straight - A's. It's not like you have a girlfriend to have sex or anything at that young of an age =\

But you have all your mind centered on one thing, she/he. You cannot concentrate at al :/

You were just lucky :p

i'll be 14 in a month and that means i'll have been with my girl for about 8 months, and i think age has nothing to do with it it's maturity, although we've been repemanded numerous times about getting to physical :rolleyes:

i'm intrested to hear whether fawki will post here, if so will he sucumb to his dormant adolesent hormones or stick with setting a good example for his son :P

maturity is one thing, but im talking a bout how when your young, you are in school. Not concentrating on school work affects your grade (personal exp). So am asking what age should it be worth it :p and im also anxious to see what fakawi will say :P

I voted 10-20. Any age over 14-15 is sutable in my opinion though.

You should have a girlfriend after the age of 16. I say this because no one knows what love is anymore.

Actually, only a selective few should have gfs. Just so people don't bitch about thier boyfriends to me.

22 Sdcit? Rofl.

I started about when i was 12. I was with a chick called Kira for 11 months, then when i moved to highschool. We got seperated.

Then there was Jaden, Marina, Matrieka. Etc. ;)

Ummm i got my first gf at about 12-13. Around that age or higher i would think. I cant see how it could affect your grades. Sdcit if you want to go out with some just do it for heavens sake lol. Dont wait till college that would suck

From: Pyro
Ummm i got my first gf at about 12-13. Around that age or higher i would think. I cant see how it could affect your grades. Sdcit if you want to go out with some just do it for heavens sake lol. Dont wait till college that would suck

He's probably waiting for the right moment to ask Driger ^^;;

I had my 1st gf at age 8 :/
It was pretty innocent back then, things don't get serious until you are older. So.. I vote 1-10 because you need to be accustomed with the opposite sex at a young age rather than leaping into action when the game is at half-time and you aren't really familiar with the rules.

From: XxKanexX
He's probably waiting for the right moment to ask Driger ^^;;

Not just driger. Sometiems he whips out that stuff on me. i have to threaten the almighty block to get him to stop

From: Pyro
Not just driger. Sometiems he whips out that stuff on me. i have to threaten the almighty block to get him to stop

Yeh, he comes onto me alot to. He's trying to turn us. ;o

-Cough-Slash-cough- D:

When did I ever come one to you guys? Perhaps I need to check my logs..

I would say about 15

From: Renax
i'm intrested to hear whether fawki will post here, if so will he sucumb to his dormant adolesent hormones or stick with setting a good example for his son :P

Lol,

IMHO I think it should be around the 10-20 years of life time.

I voted 10 - 20. Personally I don't think it matters, just go with your feelings.

From: driger1592
When did I ever come one to you guys? Perhaps I need to check my logs..

Not you, Sdcit. :p

Oh wow did I ever read that wrong *smacks self on the forehead*

*waits for kane, pyro and driger to get on msn* :p

Oh, your in for it guys when its the weekends :p

wizzup, do you have one? and please ask your father when he got his :p

Spky, but if you get bad grades, that hurts many peoples feelings including your own and your parents. :p

Also, if you get a gf/bf that young, you might face the consequences later such as having to quit high school to take care of a baby, etc.

sdcit, that's only if you're not responsible. If you have problems with that, I believe you may not be responsible. From what I've heard from just talking to you, it seems you parents Control your every move.

yes, but sometimes your mind is overpowered by these things. When you have a gf/bf, your mind should be focused no him/her, or your going to have a strange relationship. Thus, sometimes you cannot think of the responsiblities that come with it. Hell, a crush already drives me nuts, i cant even imagine what a gf/bf would feel like. Im going to consult the ones with more exp -.-.

I'm telling you this once again Sdcit: When I've had a girlfriend, it's the time Before I ask her out that I think the MOST about her, because I know I don't "have her" if you get what I'm saying.

ya but once you do "have her" you begin to worry about yourself and her more

"what will i wear"

"will she still like me if i do this"

"Why is she looking at that guy/girl?"

"Arrgh, she asked me out but i dont have time"

"Is she avalibe here, no there, no.."

to name a few :p

Sdcit, I already think most of those things :p And I do not have a girlfriend at the moment.

then who do you think about that too :p

Well, I am 13, and I have a girlfriend.
We have only been together for about two weeks, and shes great!!

You just have to find the right one in my opinion.
She has the best looks in my school, she's funny, cool, nice, and smart. Also, she isn't a slut, and she isn't very high maintenence, although I enjoy hanging out with her!

It's not bad if you think about them, it's actually quite relaxing in my opinion, think about the good stuff, your life will be more relaxed, and you can just have fun.

I'm a straight A student, and it hasn't affected my grades at all…

I am going to say 16 and up, or something near there, because until you really can drive or gain mobility, its really impossible to date and if you do date before, its just awkwards and studies also show that a prime puberic mind is incapable of truly engaging in a relationship sooo around 16 is mid puberic and yea…

From: Phlame
I am going to say 16 and up, or something near there, because until you really can drive or gain mobility, its really impossible to date and if you do date before, its just awkwards and studies also show that a prime puberic mind is incapable of truly engaging in a relationship sooo around 16 is mid puberic and yea…

You don't really need a car. I walk with my Girlfriend to the movies, or when we go out somewhere.

It's alot more social.

From: Cheesehunk
Also, she isn't a slut

Well that's a bonus ;)

Yeah who says you need a car to have a working relationship? I did loads of stuff without a car..
I was capable of having a mature 2 year relationship with a girl when I was 15 :/ If you know how to pick the right girl then there is no problem with relationships.

…Well, In my opinion, I think you should at least be 13 to have a GirlFriend. BTW sdcit, nobody would have to stay home and drop outta school because they had a child… thats why we use plastics ;) ….


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seriously, i had when i was 10, can't remember how long that lasted, then coz it was my first one, i was extremely hurt when it ended. So my second was when i was 12, was on and off for about 2 mnths, then it lasted th rest of the year. As we were going to different highschools, a long way away from each other, we decided to split it, since i was then going into high school, i din't look, wanted to settle in first, i had one about 3/4 the way through grade 8 for maybe 3 weeks. then i recently had 1, for about a month, i said some other girl was hot, not anything else, just that she was hot, i said it to my friend, and he told her.

she broke up with me then, thinking that i actually liked her or sumthing, and now she hates me, coz some dickhead at school told her i was paying her out, which is complete b/s. i now have 1 which has been going about a week and a half. so far, its good.

so 10 and older

14 just because I'm 14. Plus having a girlfriend at like 10, psh your not going to get anything done. ;)

but at 10, you are immature and just feel cool and special to have 1, they dom't do anything, and don't care

there is a study that says once a inventor gets a wife he doesnt invent anything anymore

but we arent inventors ;) we are in a way, but not really. but i think, if you don't have close company with the opposite sex, your life would turn to hell

From: GenoDemoN
there is a study that says once a inventor gets a wife he doesnt invent anything anymore

Modded to:

There is a study that says once an inventor gets a wife he makes even more brilliant inventions to show his wife whos the man. ;)

The right age is hard to say, you should get one when you feel ready. Not when you just want one to brag about it or look cool in front of your friends but when you want a gf/bf for your own reasons and don't really care what others think.

just because you have a girlfriend/boyfriend doesnt mean your doomed to have children or even stay together. you could also use protection or just not have sex if you dont think your ready for it or something

i think 14-16. i dont think it affects school as much as you think, you dont have to spend your whole time on school, you have leave some time for eating, sleeping, having a life, yes even having a girlfriend :)

From: Yakman
or just not have sex

Rofl.

From: Spky
Quote:
Originally Posted by Yakman
or just not have sex


Rofl.

well if you have a girlfriend at 10 years old, you might decide your not ready for it,

what age do you think most people first have sex at then?

From: Yakman


what age do you think most people first have sex at then?

after marrage. then if you do have a kid you'll be responsible for him/her.

From: Ruroken
after marrage. then if you do have a kid you'll be responsible for him/her.

ouch no.. imagine your first time.. after you are married.. what if you arent any good at sex.. hmm.. divorce :rolleyes:

personally i think whenever you think you are ready–wear a raincoat–be careful.. thats all i ask :biggrin:

personally i think whenever you think you are ready–wear a raincoat–be careful.. thats all i ask

i agree with all of that, especially the "be careful" bit

Don't Be A Fool, Vulcanise Your Tool :wink:

to be honest most long term realtationships dont happen until your later teens, so the 10-20 age i think, maybe even 20+

Im not sure, when my friend got a "girlfriend" it seemed rather fake, but he thinks its "seroius". id do it only for fun!

I'd have to say never. If you can do that then you have one up on me. I'd say nothing seroius untill you know whether or not you are going to work at burger king the rest of your life or you are searching for higher education. So if your going to work at burger king than start dating as soon as possible and making babies so then when the world is over populated the few of us who went the other way will have a food supply to really on. :D

Soylent Green for all

lol around 12-13 :p and the first time you have sex.. well in my school its about the time you get into 2nd grade so around …. 8-13 thats around the first time to have sex lol

i got my first gf when i was 9 lol and i think 10 -20 is a pretty good age
but like renax sed being mature is a big factor if you are trying to get a gf just cuz ur a horny little kid and so that you can get some pussy then you need to grow up….however if its for love and because you really like the person i think its watever age you have strong feelings for a person

I voted 10-20 P
Personally I dont think it matters, and i dont really think dating affects grades.
And as for sex I have some friends who have had sex multiple times and girls who have had sex that dont even know the guys name. Really It just depends on who your dating and what you intend to do…

The choice I want isn't on there. I think you should only get a girlfriend/boyfriend if you are emotionally mature. Otherwise things'll most likely get out of hand. Of course, only if you want one.

Ehh i think i was around 14ish. There's different types of bf/gf, serious and those who just have fun with eachother. Depending on which you're talking about i'd choose prolly like 14-whenever for fun. 18 to whenever for serious lol

I'd say around 15.

I voted 10-20. It doesn't really affect your grades too much although it does a bit but what's the point of not having any fun at all and it's likely to affect you afterwards if you don't because without the experiene you will not know what to do when you want a girlfriend/boyfriend.

I say 15+