SRL Archive - Discussions & Debates

Alright I just wanted to see what people think about love/relationships.

Do you think its about having a girlfriend/boyfriend means only sex?

Do you think having a relationship with some one is that so you can be with that special person? Like telling em how you feel and stuff. And when you have troubles you can just talk it over with him/her?

Do you think having a relationship is for being popular?

Well because here in Hawaii unfortunately its more like for sex. They ask out the girl, "Bang" her and then breakup. Well thats how it goes for most of my friends. I dont see most of their relationships going for more then one week…Its kinda sadning.

Well just wanted to see what people have to say.

Odd, treating women as objects doesn't usually get you sex?


I'd look more for personality. I think its quite embarrassing when the girl you're looking at realizes it. Especially when its up her skirt… *cough* And besides, if you don't really like the person, how would you get along normally once the weed wears off?



Other than that, I might vacation in Hawaii…

Girls has been screwing up with me too many times now.. SEX FTW!

What?


Having a relationship just for sex doesn't really make sense. Unless its a relationship for sex…



EDIT: Who are the three people who said "Sex" on the poll? I'll personally bitchslap you. (Here might too, 'cause your being stupid)

Slap me here and there. Doesent change my mind ;)

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Thats just because you haven't had sex yet.

From: R0b0t1
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Thats just because you haven't had sex yet.

Andd… What do u know??

My post might be a little stupid .. such a hangover x_X

Okay, add a probably between "you" and "haven't".

Meh.. Almost forgot.. It has soon been a year! Well lets not get into that.. Umm..

well… look at my sig and previous sigs LOL :D

IF you said sex you're confusing a relationship with purchasing a whore.

Wewt! There are smart people after all! <3 richk1693

deffo wanna go with the top two, just hangin out with somone and having a fun fling, im all cool with that, but really option two is for me.

EDIT: and alot of you have never had sex… FFS

It's obviously to be with the person, to talk things over and such…or else you wouldn't end up marrying them.

Unfortunately, if you think it's for the sex, then you're one of those people without morals who just use a girl as an object. Respect to r0bot1, not too happy with the rest.

its human nature.

without sex, the human race would die out.

(unless we can clone but even humans havent perfected it yet)

From: R0b0t1
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Agreed.

Relationships are about love folks :)

Yea ok if you wana have sex well at least get to know the girl, for a week or so. Anywayz when you are in a relationship your ought to have sex sometime, but i hate it when people HPD. Hump Pump and dump. and then break up with the girl.

Try Japan, there the girls have competitions of who bangs the most boys in a week.

From: Santa_Clause
It's obviously to be with the person, to talk things over and such…or else you wouldn't end up marrying them.

Unfortunately, if you think it's for the sex, then you're one of those people without morals who just use a girl as an object. Respect to r0bot1, not too happy with the rest.

So a guy can't be an object?

From: Psychor
Try Japan, there the girls have competitions of who bangs the most boys in a week.

They have it wrong then. Meaningful relationships are important.

Also the chances for pregnancy or STIs for those girls is just plain frightening…

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I thought most girls where into the "OhMiGosh! I still have my hymen/virginity!" kinda thing.


But a man can still be used as an object, but in that case, the man thinks he is using the women also. An example would be "Sex Friends" or "Bang Buddies" etc.

I say its a mix of the first 2 even though i voted for sex lol

i think those guys who said "So you can be with that person and stuff" have been listening to too many women talk about sex/relationships.

women tend to talk about sex/relationships more then men, so young teenage guys sometimes the idea that for men, it is only about loving the person and stuff.

in a nature way, sex/relationships are about producing children
1. in the time it takes a girl to have 1 child, a guy can have 900
2. hence girls are much, much more choosy about who they sleep with then guys

even with the invention of contraception, where sex doesn't necessarily lead to children, this instinct in girls has remained.

i think guys who said "being with the person" are lying to themselves, if they look inside deep enough, they will realise. Come on, what do you want? truthfully.

of course, if you tell girls this, they will call you a pig, leave you and tell their friends.

heres a few proverbs which show what i mean

• Girls give sex to receive love, Guys give love to receive sex.
• Money is made, great symphonies are written, grand buildings are erected, but its all to feed one simple urge which needs satisfying.

this urge is a part thing which drives the world, this subconscious instinct, the need to be better then your fellow man, to be a good human, to pass on a piece of yourself.

If i want to be and talk to that that girl, ill become her friend, not go out with her.

girls aren't so nice either, there have been times, i admit, where after thinking about a situation for a while, i realised that the girls there had me dancing like a puppet on a string.
I'v seen how girls can bat their eyelashes to get a free bus ticket, how one of my female friends subtly convinces her boyfriend to go buy the milk or whatever.

We are both as bad as each other.

and there are exceptions in all cases, like a female slut who takes a very manly approach to sex (ie, sleeping with anyone)

what I'v written mostly applies to young adults/teens, when people get a bit older, they will actually want to raise children, so not just be in a relationship for sex, but to stop using a contraceptive and build a stable structure for raising a part of themselves.

and what iv written is from a guy's point of view, but iv only noticed two girls on this forum, so i can say I'm talking to the majority :) (not that it makes a difference, you can make scripts equally well regardless of your gender)

nice speech there. :D

especially this part :

Girls give sex to receive love, Guys give love to receive sex.

From: goider
deffo wanna go with the top two, just hangin out with somone and having a fun fling, im all cool with that, but really option two is for me.

EDIT: and alot of you have never had sex… FFS

By Jukka and me:

Andd… What do u know??

You're the person who thinks all programmers are wearing glasses and looks like geeks…

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Not really any of those options. I guess maybe option 2. Anyone who chooses option 3 is just a loser. Im sorry but it has to be said. And prob not the thing to be discussing with kids :p. But i guess also 1. I certainly have to say it is. Not that i go out with a girl just for sex. If my gf said i had to abstain for like a year. I would try. But there is no way i would make it

Of course a relationship should include sex, or its not really a "relationship", but if a relationship focuses on sex, I don't think it should be called a relationship either.

Women are actually planning to take over the world. I think its been proven somewhere that women have higher IQ's than men… *sentence trails off as if in deep thought*

From: R0b0t1
Of course a relationship should include sex, or its not really a "relationship", but if a relationship focuses on sex, I don't think it should be called a relationship either.

Women are actually planning to take over the world. I think its been proven somewhere that women have higher IQ's than men… *sentence trails off as if in deep thought*

Load of crap in my opinion.

Which part? The "include sex!" part, or the "women might be smarter" part? That part was meant to be a joke :p.


EDIT:If it was the first part, how you define "relationship" is relative. If it means a relationship where you just want to be friends/acquaintances, then it should be to spend time with the person. If it means a serious relationship, it should be to spend time with the person and include sex, as that is what a serious relation ship means. To me, anyway.