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Ok, well…the story goes like this. about 12 weeks/3 months ago, I decided to be nice to some girl that I'd never really talked to. Not exactly being nice, but we'd never talked before and she seemed quite friendly. Her name's Diana. Anyways, 2 weeks later, her and some of her female friends got into a heap of trouble. They got banned from talking to each other at school. Diana decides that she likes me more than the rest of the guys at school, and asks me if she can hang out. Obviously, I said she could.

I did, at times, have a couple of suspicions concerning her loyalty, since I'm not even in her grade at school: I'm in year 9 and she's in year 8…she's older though. I'm quite popular with the year 8 students, so the thought of her using me to get more popular with them did cross my mind, and I decided to confront her about it. She assured me that she'd never use me, and that we were best friends…

Now, on Sunday, she messaged me and we talked for a while, I didn't call her because my parents get annoying when I talk to girls. The day after, which was Monday, she didn't talk to me at all, so I thought I'd go talk to her the next day. I went to talk to her, and she says: 'No, don't talk to me Samuel', and runs off into the bathroom with one of her friends. I've tried asking her what was wrong, but she just seemed to call me a hypocrite and doesn't want to talk anymore. What I found weird was: I was talking to her on Sunday, the conversation ended happily, and then she mysteriously gets angry at me. Every single time I approach her, she says I don't want to talk to you. Any ideas on what I should do?

*cough* typical bitch *cough* OR
*cough* time of month *cough*

As jahuro said…

Welcome to the world of girls. It a little thing called PMS.
Just avoid it and it will usually blow over…

Edit: and getting her to drink milk helps…(scientific study)

Firstly, she isn't a typical bitch. Or she might be, but she hasn't shown it. As for her periods, she doesn't get pissed at me during them…we had a camp once and she told me that she decided not to go because of 'that time of month'.

Ahhh. Why did you assume she would use you. I have never met a chick that used me to "Just be popular". If they were going to use you they would use you for something bigger then that…. In my mind. You blew it.

Please remember, I didn't accuse her. We just sat down, and I asked her what her motives were for choosing me over the other 15+ people in her class that she'd been friends with for longer. Ofcourse, the answer was: 'I liked you more'.

And something bigger than that? Such as…?

From: Pyro
Ahhh. Why did you assume she would use you. I have never met a chick that used me to "Just be popular". If they were going to use you they would use you for something bigger then that…. In my mind. You blew it.

@Pyro - Nah that's just cos you're not popular enough to be used :D

@Santa - Girls below the age of 16-17 = biggest waste of your time, not like anything's gonna happen with it. That's how I look at it anyways.

Ahh, I think you misunderstood a little bit. We're Best Friends, nothing more…it's not like we were going out or anything…

Rape her, :)

Jks, why am i HERE FFS its so hard to leave :(

From: Santa_Clause
Ahh, I think you misunderstood a little bit. We're Best Friends, nothing more…it's not like we were going out or anything…

you're best friends? You've known her for like two weeks, plus you don't have to be going out with her to like her. Plus if she won't answer you there's not much you can do, and she's not the sort of best friend I'd want.

Am I really that bad at writing? I've known her for a long time, we just weren't friends. Three months ago she tells me I'm her best friend…?

Newtons 5th law: Bitches be crazy.

From: Boreas
Newtons 5th law: Bitches be crazy.

What's the fourth?

Haha. Girls are weird i guess. My best friend is also a female. And we've been friends for several years. And trust me. Why the hell would they use you to be "Popular". Yes i was in popular group at school. But geez. What a waste of time LMAO. If they wanted to use you. They would use you to get closer to a friend of yours etc.

And TBH. People dont "use" you as best friends. If she was going to use you she would go further then that.

I love you for saying that Pyro. Want to know why? She has a crush on one of my closest friends…before her.

From: Santa_Clause
Am I really that bad at writing? I've known her for a long time, we just weren't friends. Three months ago she tells me I'm her best friend…?

must be my reading…(h)

Rolf@Boreas


:p Rk style love: Watch her net traffic, watch her window 24/7 with nightvision stuffs :D

Same thing happened to me, a year older girl, wanted to see me at summer very usually. Once when she was acting stupidly I said something not that bad and she started crying that she wants to be with me. We were hanging out usually etc, then 3-4 months later. Bang! I'm like some murderer or something, all she does is annoys me or (mitä on vittuilla lontooks) pisses me off, I don't know the English word but I think you got it. They are just girls, nothing to be worried of.. I think that it's typical because they usually "chat behind backs" and if someone of her friend didnt like you then pretty quickly also the girl starts to hate you.

vittuilla lontooks = fucking? "Don' fuck with me"

:p no idea xD

I think you should just avoid her for a few days just do that and if she really likes you she will tell you. also bare in mind it might have been one of her "friends" bitching about something you did/said.

I know I shouldn't give you advise on this since i blew my date last summer for a stupid reason but meh my own thoughts

TLDR; Use enough lubricant.




















Just kidding. :p

Well I think you should try talk to her when her friends are not around. Most of the girls at that age won't act naturally when their friends are around. So you are not together, just friends? In that case, she is acting really weird. But trust me, what ever you do, you will never understand women. Atleast I have never understood them.
One option is that you just ignore her for a while, and try talking few days later. I'm pretty sure it's just some small random thing that she is angry about.

Anyways, to make you feel better I have to say this; your problem isn't that big when compared to my. Let me explain my situation:

There are girls A and B. They are best friends together, A is kinda wild and B is more shy. I met both of them at one party last summer. Both of them had a boyfriend at that time, but B was interested in me. We chatted alot with sms, phone and msn, we went to parties together and so on. But nothing bigger. I decided to tell my feelings, and she wasn't really sure what to answer. We met couple of times, but we didn't even kiss or anything like that. And soon she got interested in my best friend, C. C didn't like her that much but they had fun. It ended in day or two lol.
At this point, everything was normal for a while. But maybe month later, I decided to have a party at my house. I invited all my friends, including A, B and C. Here it gets complicated. I found out that A likes me pretty much, and that's the reason why B doesn't want to be with me. She couldn't hurt her best friend. And here it gets even MORE complicated! I say as a joke to A :"If you come to my party, I want to fuck you. :) " and she answers:"Sure, why not ;)" and later B says to me:"You know… I would just like to have sex with someone… I think it would be cool. :) I'm still virgin…."

Let's sum it up here now:
A likes me alot and she wants to have sex at the party.
B likes me less than A, I like more of her than A, she probably wants to have sex, but not at party. And she is virgin.

So… I had to choose between two people, it's really hard… I'm good friend with both of them, but I also like both of them more than a friend…
At the party B didn't show any interest towards me, so I decided:"Fuck this shit, if she doesn't want me I'll just be with A"
I had really great time with A, she wasn't afraid of kissing in public or anything like that. It was really great… And she kept her promise ;)

But anyways, I can't explain that situation with words. It was so fucked up, I really didn't know what to do lol. So many feelings, so many questions, so many DECISIONS. It's really hard when you are good friends, I was afraid to lose my friendship with them if something went wrong.

Blah, there might be typos and such things but I'm too lazy to fix them. :redface:

Good luck with women, because you WILL need it! And remember, there is always someone who is more fucked up than you lol. Also, alcohol does help, atleast it helps me. Helps me to forget this shitty world and all my problems are gone for that night… It's just fantastic. :)

I think that I'll wait like until im ~20, because these 15 year old girls are waste of time like someone just said, I recommend it to everyone : D

From: Eicca
I think that I'll wait like until im ~20, because these 15 year old girls are waste of time like someone just said, I recommend it to everyone : D

Yesh. All wait till your like 20 & are in college ;)

From: The Claw
What's the fourth?

Stay away from crazy bitches ;)

I dunno, I'm crazy, so I hang around a lot of crazy people, so this makes sense to me. :p My solution: Tell her you aren't going to talk to her ever again for what she did (be vague). Then she will wonder what she did and try to talk to you (if she's faking it) or leave you alone (if she really hates you) either way, you win :)

From: Eicca
I think that I'll wait like until im ~20, because these 15 year old girls are waste of time like someone just said, I recommend it to everyone : D

Well, tbh that just sounds like an excuse. Are you that kind of guy who doesn't get any girls and just sit infront of PC? :redface:

From: BenLand100
My solution: Tell her you aren't going to talk to her ever again for what she did (be vague). Then she will wonder what she did and try to talk to you (if she's faking it) or leave you alone (if she really hates you) either way, you win :)

Holy shit! I GOT TO remember this one! It's a great tip! :f: :spot:

:D:D:D:D One girl asked me out over msn (usually a bad sign). I was a gr 10 and she wanted to have sex with me after about a week… She dumped me because i wouldn't put out… lol. She's also one of those stupid whores who lies about everything (doesnt everyone hate that). anyways

Dont have sex until your married boys!! bad things happen :P

From: metagen
:D:D:D:D One girl asked me out over msn (usually a bad sign). I was a gr 10 and she wanted to have sex with me after about a week… She dumped me because i wouldn't put out… lol. She's also one of those stupid whores who lies about everything (doesnt everyone hate that). anyways

Dont have sex until your married boys!! bad things happen :P

She wanted to intentionally give you AIDZ!! :p

screw girls most are just 'players' but just leave her a couple of days and see if she does anythink

She might be trying to "break up" with you, even though you've said you aren't dating.

Well, and to help you understand women:


You most likely aren't interested except for that which concerns you.


EDIT: That which concerns you…

Yeah, just don't bother, just a waste of time. :P

From: BenLand100
Stay away from crazy bitches ;)

I dunno, I'm crazy, so I hang around a lot of crazy people, so this makes sense to me. :p My solution: Tell her you aren't going to talk to her ever again for what she did (be vague). Then she will wonder what she did and try to talk to you (if she's faking it) or leave you alone (if she really hates you) either way, you win :)

It won't work. She'll probably think 'what she did' involves her not talking to me. Oh, by the way, I hate one of Diana's friends, Sidora…a few weeks ago I didn't something bad to her…anyone think this might be about it?

From: metagen
:D:D:D:D One girl asked me out over msn (usually a bad sign). I was a gr 10 and she wanted to have sex with me after about a week… She dumped me because i wouldn't put out… lol. She's also one of those stupid whores who lies about everything (doesnt everyone hate that). anyways

Dont have sex until your married boys!! bad things happen :P

You actually turned down sex with no consequences? :duh:

:p

Claw's Einstein xD

She wanted to intentionally give you AIDZ!!

AID…. Give aid…. ACA!!

Yes, ACA!

Like, she maybe had a dev version of it 0mfgz00r??


EDIT: Aren't whores to be raped? :p

From: metagen
Dont have sex until your married boys!! bad things happen :P

The man speaks the truth!

My youngest sister tested off the charts when she was young. She was like a child genius. She didn't make very many friends, and ended up hanging out with a cousin that was alway getting into trouble.

To make a long story short, they both ended up getting pregnant in high school and dropping out. The cousin has a half-Tongan baby who's dad is in prison. My sister is now unemployed, living at home with her parents, with a 2 year old baby and will probably never even get a high school diploma. All she cares about is partying. The poor kid pays for it too. She sleeps all day and leaves him to run around the house unattended. If my mom wasn't there to fill in the gap, the kid would probably be taken away by CPS by now.

It's a rotten life for the kid, for the family, and I imagine it's a pretty rotten life for her too. Maybe she doesn't think so now, but I think some day she'll realize what a waste of space she chose to be when she had so much potential.

Having a little 'fun' isn't worth screwing your life up.

If you have fun responsibly though its fine..sorry if I sound harsh. But their fault for not making the guys use protection, and the guys fault for not taking it upon himself to use it.